I don't define people like Ben Roethlisberger, Jerramy Stevens, Rae Carruth and OJ Simpson as "men". They're pieces of s--t. Real "men" don't do the kind of crap these guys did.
Nothing is more important than winning. Nothing. Winning is the only thing. If you aint in this game to win, then you in the wrong business. This isnt pop warner, this is the NFL. A man's league.
If you want to cheer for guys like that, go ahead. Doesn't say much for you, though.
Would it have been okay for Chris Terry to beat his wife if he had been a better player?