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How did you know?

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I guess I am just afraid of finding out the truth. I cherish our friendship and would rather have her in my life like that than nothing at all. I'll wait however long it takes until the moment is right because I feel as though she is worth it.

At this point I think I am going to just give it space and try to talk less and less to her before I am actually in Cali. At least that is change and will switch things up a bit and I will be able to assess the situation and make moves from there.

One day you will wake up as a 40 yr old working for the man and think about the year (or years) of your life IN COLLEGE this chick strung you along.....and all the missed college pu tang you let pass you by.

Good luck bro. Hope it works out for you.

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I didnt realize how much of a pussy you were maine.

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I didnt realize how much of a pussy you were maine.

When dealing with a chick this gorgeous, you'd be slow to make a move too.

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I had this convo last year with a really good friend of mine.. one of my best "girlfriends".. we used to date several years back and our chemistry is off the charts. this time around I felt like I was ready to try again, a little more serious without being a douche, but it was obvious we weren't going to work as a couple.. so we decided to keep it as friends.

with you having no history with her, she's most likely just as curious as you are. if the 2 of you really are tight, you both will get past however it goes.

truth be told, you are in your college years. I don't know if you realize this, but the friends you have now will rarely be a tightnit group down the road. friends last a season, a reason, or a lifetime.. majority of them fall in the 1st 2 categories. rarely do they fall in the last, and those you have to cherish and give eternal forgiveness..

chances are low you 2 will be the bestest friends for the rest of your life. that's just the way life is and you 2 don't really get to make that choice. it just happens.

if I were you.. I would go for gold, instead of living in regret later down the road. if the friendship is truly for a lifetime, this would be a minor speed bump..

live it up.. that's what college is all about anyhow..

edit: btw, she's hot..

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When dealing with a chick this gorgeous, you'd be slow to make a move too.

better to make a move then be another one of her girlfriends.

Not trying to make fun of you just saying what i'm thinking.

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When dealing with a chick this gorgeous, you'd be slow to make a move too.

you shouldn't be. you keep playing around and one day all she'll be is a girl you drool over on facebook.

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One day you will wake up as a 40 yr old working for the man and think about the year (or years) of your life IN COLLEGE this chick strung you along.....and all the missed college pu tang you let pass you by.

Good luck bro. Hope it works out for you.

all of the college "pu tang" in the world aint worth a lifetime with the right one.

OPF if you think she might be the one don't do anything stupid. Don't start talking to her less, or anything that would make her think you've lost interest. I'd look for a time when you are in Cali to bring it up. Let her know how you feel and if poo is as perfect with her as you think she will probably be glad you did.

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If I am not trying to hit it, I damn sure ain't giving out massages and sleeping in the bed with her.

I'm telling you dude I bet the girl thinks he is a homo

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When dealing with a chick this gorgeous, you'd be slow to make a move too.

Going slow means you give someone else more chances. You have to strike while the iron is hot. Wait to long and you become just a friend with little chance of every being anything else.

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