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That's the thing, exactly why I am not rushing anything and just making sure she knows through my actions that I'll be in her corner forever. We both live fast, going out to clubs together and we are usually eachother's wingmen which gets tough on me but I don't let her see/know that,

sorry bud, I think you are already too deep into the friendzone with this one.....none of that sounds good.

but to answer your orginal question. After college I had her live with me.....I fully understood that 99.9% of women are crazy BUT all operate on different levels of crazy. After a year of studying her in close quarters I realized I could live with her level of crazy.

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This thread is nothing like I expected it to be.

Why is that in any way surprising.

If you are giving her massages and sleeping with her and you both have chemistry yeah you need to go for it. She let you in her bed for a reason. Or at least say something about it like....soo how about this week we go on a real date instead of just chillin.

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This thread is nothing like I expected it to be.

Why is that in any way surprising.

If you are giving her massages and sleeping with her and you both have chemistry yeah you need to go for it. She let you in her bed for a reason. Or at least say something about it like....soo how about this week we go on a real date instead of just chillin.

sounds like he is a straight man playing the role of a girl's gay friend......I mean if she was interested he would have to be pretty freakin blind to miss it at this point.

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No Boo they like to talk about unicorns and pilates.

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there's no way you can stay friends and have incredible chemistry at the same time.

right now, you're living in denial. you're going to make a move eventually anyhow. this thread proves your subconscious is working towards that goal.

make a move, do not ask for permission. she will stop you if she doesn't want to go down that road. if she asks you anything, like "do you think this will affect our friendship", etc, it's not a "no", pretend it's a "buying question" and close the deal.

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Absolutely go for it. You're a fool if you don't.

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This is why guys and girls can never truly be friends - guys are always wondering if they're ever gonna fug the girl.

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This is why guys and girls can never truly be friends - guys are always wondering if they're ever gonna f**k the girl.

please, that girl has thought about it just as much, if not more..

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more? :lol:

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Does she talk about banging other dudes with you?

If not, you better hit it really quickly.

Honestly, I would assume that she has been pushing you around for too long for a real relationship to work out, but I guess you should at least try.

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please, that girl has thought about it just as much, if not more..

girls are wired different. there are girls that want to hang out with certain guys and have ZERO interest in them sexually. Those guys are filling other needs and that is how they like it.....

I say this guy has a 10% chance of his move working at this stage. He is her wing "man" while she goes out and picks up dudes.

These things rarely work as you described...chicks have been doing that to sucker guys for a LONG time. The entire time the guy thinks if he puts in his "friend" work long enough there is some big payoff......it doesn't happen.

Good luck, I just think odds are against you.

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sounds like he is a straight man playing the role of a girl's gay friend......I mean if she was interested he would have to be pretty freakin blind to miss it at this point.

She just might be hesitant about it and waiting for him to make a move. Its always good to be friends before you start dating. My ex and I were friends for 2 years before we ever even considered each other in that light.

I was dating another guy before we got together and then one day after we broke up the light just kinda turned on in my head. We dated for almost 5 years.

No Boo they like to talk about unicorns and pilates.

Sounds......interesting? .....OPM....you a Brony dawg?

This is why guys and girls can never truly be friends - guys are always wondering if they're ever gonna fug the girl.

I have plenty of guy friends. More guy than girl friends. We tend to have things in common though...

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