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#16 Floppin

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Posted 19 July 2011 - 07:13 PM

Not like he described it, I can almost guarantee you that.

You both pretend it's the same but you both know it's not. New or different feelings come about to replace the old ones and it's never the same after that.


It's different for everyone, I have two exes that I'm as close to as anyone else in my life outside of my wife and child.

#17 4Corners

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Posted 19 July 2011 - 07:14 PM

. We do however literally sleep together, I'll massage her to sleep and just talk about life and she does the same for me.


LOL.

dude but she probably thinks you are a closet homosexual.

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Posted 19 July 2011 - 07:15 PM

We've never boned, made out numerous times keeping it friendly. We do however literally sleep together, I'll massage her to sleep and just talk about life and she does the same for me. I'm just not trying to do anything to throw our friendship out the window.


Well man, that's the catch. It's going to change after you state how you feel, if you guys had just randomly hooked up not so much. After you tell her, however, if she doesn't reciprocate the feelings it's going to get awkward.

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Posted 19 July 2011 - 07:15 PM

We've never boned, made out numerous times keeping it friendly. We do however literally sleep together, I'll massage her to sleep and just talk about life and she does the same for me. I'm just not trying to do anything to throw our friendship out the window.


Don't say boned and you might have a shot.

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Posted 19 July 2011 - 07:16 PM

http://www.kotaku.co...ships_for_us-2/

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Posted 19 July 2011 - 07:16 PM

Just ask if she has ever thought about being more than friends. If she says no, reply me neither.

#22 OnlyPantherFaninMaine

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Posted 19 July 2011 - 07:17 PM

Well man, that's the catch. It's going to change after you state how you feel, if you guys had just randomly hooked up not so much. After you tell her, however, if she doesn't reciprocate the feelings it's going to get awkward.


That's the thing, exactly why I am not rushing anything and just making sure she knows through my actions that I'll be in her corner forever. We both live fast, going out to clubs together and we are usually eachother's wingmen which gets tough on me but I don't let her see/know that,

#23 4Corners

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Posted 19 July 2011 - 07:17 PM

We just lye in bed and talk about our dreams, clouds, puppies, and frolicking through the forest surrounded by butterflies and elves. I wait for her to fall asleep...... so I can rub one out.

#24 Delhommey

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Posted 19 July 2011 - 07:19 PM

Also, in response to a question on how to escape the friend zone...

Okay, this is the last time I’m going to write about men stuck in platonic friendships with women they want to date. After today, I’m bookmarking it and just referring future questions to this link.

Here’s the deal. Women are wonderful creatures. I adore them. They smell nice, they have body parts I enjoy touching, and they’re vital to the survival of our species. So please take the following advice NOT as misogyny gone awry, but as a warning of a habit that many people of the fairer gender have. I’ll even put it in italics so that future generations can find it more easily:

Women LOVE attention. They absolutely crave it. Attention from a man feeds their ego and improves their self-image, which is important because women are constantly judged on how they look, and porn/Victoria’s Secret/fashion magazines blah blah blah. The thing is, while YOU think that a woman responding to your texts and chats is a sign that she might sleep with you, SHE’s just enjoying the fact that a man is giving her attention. Yes, even if she has a boyfriend. Yes, even if she’s flirting with you. She doesn’t need sex; she wants your time, your precious minutes and hours.

The best way to make inroads in this kind of relationship is to take away what she wants: you paying attention to her. Don’t respond to texts for a day. Don’t sign into chat — or, better, ignore her. This will make her wonder if she did something wrong, or if she somehow became unattractive to you, thus making YOU more attractive to her. This opens the door to the possibility of you having a sexual relationship, but what will DEFINITELY happen is that someone who isn’t interested in you will no longer be wasting your time.


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#25 OnlyPantherFaninMaine

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Posted 19 July 2011 - 07:27 PM

Thanks for the words of wisdom. Now for you married Huddlers, when/how did you know your significant other was the one for you? I assume many of you were in the same stage I am right now.

Leaving for my boy's house then I'm going to play ball but keep the posts coming and I'll address them when I am home. Thanks again.

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Posted 19 July 2011 - 07:29 PM

Talk to us once you've signed the contract.

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Posted 19 July 2011 - 07:44 PM

Well I'm ugly, short and fat, she was hot and had a good heart.

Luck, I guess.

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Posted 19 July 2011 - 07:45 PM

Well I'm ugly, short and fat, she was hot and had a good heart.

Luck, I guess.


She's not hot anymore?

Before and after pics please

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Posted 19 July 2011 - 07:49 PM

lol

#30 Jangler

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Posted 19 July 2011 - 08:27 PM

She found Maine....she's a keeper.


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