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#1 DoWorkBson

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Posted 26 August 2011 - 09:33 PM

Has anyone heard the phrase "im not emotionally ready for a relationship with anyone right now" and had anything work out?

#2 sunbunny

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Posted 26 August 2011 - 09:34 PM

No

#3 SCMunnerlyn1

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Posted 26 August 2011 - 09:39 PM

It depends .. i've heard it once and backed off for a couple weeks , then made another attempt and got a good 3 months out of it before she moved away. What do you know about her past relationships?

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Posted 26 August 2011 - 09:45 PM

Dude she just broke up with, probably 2 months ago is a complete tool. I knew him in high school and assume he hasn't changed in 7 or so years

#5 necroplasm

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Posted 26 August 2011 - 09:48 PM

Just give it time.
Be patient..stick around but don't push. Absorb your surroundings.

Our solar system's planets have to revolve. lol, even if that's not the case, that person may just be going through many up and downs at this time... or was hurt in recent past, eh?

#6 Jbro

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Posted 26 August 2011 - 09:51 PM

Three R's... Roofie, rape, repeat. Who cares what she says?

#7 Jackofalltrades

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Posted 26 August 2011 - 09:53 PM

Try chloroform next time.

#8 Kevin Greene

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Posted 27 August 2011 - 12:13 AM

You're not getting laid tonight.

#9 Razzy

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Posted 27 August 2011 - 12:31 AM

No. The last "girlfriend" I had was that case. We dated for around 6 months, but it never got very serious. We never even met each others' families. Right before summer we got in a fight and she pulled the "I'm not ready for a serious relationship, it's not what I want." card. We just started talking again after nearly 4 month, but I can tell nothing will work out. This and "just want to be friends" are killers.

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Posted 27 August 2011 - 08:25 AM

I actually used that phrase for almost a year with my girl. We are getting married next sat. So i guess it can workout. Of course that flips it a little with it coming from a guy and not a girl. I was just not ready for a relationship and i honestly did not think it would be her anyway. I guess i was wrong. Lol

#11 Delhommey

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Posted 27 August 2011 - 08:28 AM

Is she emotionally ready to ***? If so, who cares?

#12 hepcat

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Posted 27 August 2011 - 09:20 AM

Yes I've heard that, in different words but essentially the same thing. She wanted to bang other guys, is the way I took it.

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Posted 27 August 2011 - 09:40 AM

I can't think of anything more misguided than asking relationship status to a bunch of backwards, porn addicted hairy palmed rednecks.

Present company excluded of course.

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Posted 27 August 2011 - 10:13 AM

you guys are a bunch of homos

go out to a bar with another girl and let her see you

#15 bleys

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Posted 27 August 2011 - 11:44 AM

simple answer is no. she's either not into you or will always be an emotional case...


like TD said, go find another girl and hit up a bar..

Edited by bleys, 27 August 2011 - 11:48 AM.



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