If thats the case he's a punk ass motherfuger who has some bad Karma coming his way. Hopefully the clap.
Amber Cole story (didn't see it posted yet)
Posted 19 October 2011 - 10:29 PM
Posted 19 October 2011 - 10:41 PM
Posted 19 October 2011 - 10:49 PM
Some 14 year olds are not mature enough to think about long term consequences.
This wouldn't even be an issue had the BOY not uploaded the video. She'd be just another 14 year old girl who sucked a dick and i would never even know about it. The boys are the ones who've turned this into humiliating her for all the world to see.
So yeah, she used poor judgement, but what they've done is atrocious. They purposely set out to humiliate this girl. I'd be spending the rest of my life in prison after I got done with those boys if it was my daughter.
I agree with you, I think what the boys did is much worse. My only problem is your first sentence. To me when I hear phrases like "he/she just made a mistake when they were young" or "he/she just wasn't mature enough" that sounds like giving them a pass. Like it was ok because of their age. I know that isn't what you were doing, but that is what I think of every time someone says that.
Posted 19 October 2011 - 11:11 PM
Posted 19 October 2011 - 11:25 PM
If you're talking about knowing killing is wrong, I agree. But I have yet to meet a teenager that had the maturity of an adult. Kids make stupid decisions and mistakes.
No I'm not expecting them to be that mature. But doing outside, at school, in front of other boys. IMO 14 is mature enough to understand that is dumb as hell. I'm not saying she deserves to have this happen to her because I don't think anyone deserves to be embarrassed like this. But it wasa result of a dumb decision on her part so I feel as those she doesn't deserve my sympathy.
Posted 20 October 2011 - 05:47 AM
Posted 20 October 2011 - 07:23 AM
We used to smash girls all the time in college on webcam with the live feed in the living room then we'd put them up on the wall of shame.
They knew, they don't care. Girls lie and love the attention.
Posted 20 October 2011 - 07:57 AM
I'm interested in how the parents on the huddle feel about this.
Honestly I'm horrified, it doesn't help that my daughter was just born, but I'd still be horrified.
What world are we living in that it's ok to treat a 14 year old girl like a porn star just because some lowlife guy manipulates her into doing something incredibly stupid?
Females are emotional by nature, throw in puberty and it's the perfect storm of hormones and emotions. When a girl in that situation falls for a guy he can get her to do just about anything. The moral burden lies with the guy to not take advantage of that fragile state. When he does he is guilty of a much more heinous offense than trying to please a lover.
It makes me sad to know that my children are growing up in a world where objectifying and humiliating girls is ok because "they ask for it".
Posted 20 October 2011 - 08:32 AM
Posted 20 October 2011 - 08:35 AM
I have, I have a college degree, a masters degree, and a job that I love. My wife is pretty cool too.
I do need a new mattress though.
If only I didn't get that BJ junior year in history class when the JV football coach was substitute teaching then ditch school the next day and go to the beach so my part time Mormon girlfriend's mom wouldn't scold me because her daughter told her everything only to come back to football practice in the afternoon having my dad there burning a whole through me with his eyes for ditching class and getting a high five from my varsity coach I would have a new bed by now.
fug it, if that bitch would have swallowed and not spit it in the trash attracting attention I'd probably be retired on some foreign island right now.
Well aren't you special.
Posted 20 October 2011 - 08:46 AM
My daughter would have very much gotten a "If you're going to act like a slut and a disposable human being with no self respect, then don't be surprised when people treat you that way" reaction.
The boys involved would have been hunted down and turned over to the local authorities for creating and distributing pornographic materials of a minor. If the local authorities refused to prosecute I would pursue a civil remedy.
Posted 20 October 2011 - 10:29 AM
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