I don't need to show you anything. This 'society' you are talking about doesn't represent all people of any race. You are part of the problem.
As long as me calling someone the n word is different than them calling me whitey or cracka or calling a hispanic a sp*c or some other derogatory term we as a country can never move on.
The way things currently are white people are the only race that is seen as racist by society. Show me proof Im wrong.
You know what I learned? I learned that there are ignorant people in EVERY race, and some of them will never change no matter what. So i can't worry about them, I have to worry about me, and how I will handle myself and how I interact with different races.