See there's a difference between homophobia and calling your friend with a pink fanny pack gay. One is fear and closeted desires and the other is insensitivity. I was most definitely insensitive and the words I used
And yes my girl has a large number of gay friends and now I do as well. On one of our first dates we got to talking about political ideology and she asked me a couple probing questions on the subject. I told her my opinion....and now we are getting married. I guess my "homophobia" didn't scare her off.
Today, I am not anti-gay hater...I'm an anti-bigot.
And I'm anti-Vince Neil.