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#111 JakeFlake


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Posted 07 June 2012 - 10:10 AM

You did the right thing. Go find someone else and throw her stuff out of the apartment.

#112 thefuzz


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Posted 07 June 2012 - 10:16 AM

Wow on her ballsy move to meet him at a nice restaurant, and to lie to you about it before hand.

You sir had a real doozie on your hands.

I hope that you wore a rubber on those 5 days where things were back to normal.

#113 CRA


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Posted 07 June 2012 - 10:26 AM

This one ain't over...I expect another post after they get back together following the "earring retrieval dinner". Then another post about how there is a new straw that is supposedly the last one....

#114 PanthaSan


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Posted 07 June 2012 - 01:35 PM

Wow, sorry to hear that KBR.

My advice is to suck it up and walk away. Emotional pain will heal eventually. Yeah, that might sound harsh but trust broken is very hard to get back 100% unless you are a total sucker. Yeah, sorry again for the harsh words but if she will cheat and "get away with it" (by your forgiveness) it will seem like she got away with it and it will be a matter of time before she tries it again.

They say if your spouse cheats on you with a stranger, then it most likely was a random event. If they cheat on you with someone they knew, it was premeditated and planned out. Only a matter of time before it happens again.

IMHO, your best option is to get revenge on her by living a good life and surround yourself with those who love you.