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How long did it take you to find your mate?

Or better yet, how many partners did you go through before finding the one that made you say. "I'm keeping this one."?

Currently, I've gone through 5 REAL GFs and I can't seem to seal the deal. Won't get into the details of it but I'd like to know from your experiences how many did you go through before getting hitched?

I'm at the point of my life that I just want to settle down, seems I'm the only one though. Which kind of sucks. O_O

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This is my second marriage, but this one was definitely different. I learned a lot from the first one for sure. As for re number of serious relationships prior to this one? I'd day 5 or 6. Don't be in a rush, you'll know.

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Never get married, only date really hot chicks for 3 months at a time and then get a new one...

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Second marriage for me also. The first one was definitely a trial run.

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Never get married, only date really hot chicks for 3 months at a time and then get a new one...

I love this plan, but there's one flaw. Hot chicks require a hight amount of cash, which is totally beyond my reach for sure.

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1st time i was waay to young and self centered. She was a good person but i wasn't.

2nd time i married for other reasons.

If you are having any doubts don't do it.

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I love this plan, but there's one flaw. Hot chicks require a hight amount of cash, which is totally beyond my reach for sure.

no they don't :)

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I'm 29 and the wife and I have been together for 8 years, married just under 4. I had a few serious relationships before, but I actually met her during a time I was determined to stay single. Keep am open mind and meet as many people as you can; that way, when you find a good one you will know.

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I met my current wife (second) at the tailgate. Well it's a longer story that that, but anyways being with someone you have a lot in common with and enjoy hanging out with is the most important thing to me. My first marriage, we liked hanging out but we really didn't have a lot in common which killed it years down the road.

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I can't seem to seal the deal.

I bet.

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no they don't, just bribe them with happy meals. :)

dang man that's just wrong...

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1 girlfriend, getting married in a couple months.

Best advice I can give you is know what you want in a future spouse. I never dated throughout high school and half of college because I could never see myself with any of the girls that liked me. If you cannot see yourself marrying a person why date them, at least that was my mindset. Be patience and enjoy time with your friends, the right girl will come along, probably wont even realize it in the moment.

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