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dang man that's just wrong...

lol i once offered candy to a group of school girls waiting on a bus. They just looked at me funny and asked if i had any cigarettes.

F'n kids today..

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I dated a lot but had two serious relationships prior to my wife. Found out what I liked and what I didn't....

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My rule of thumb: bang bitches and drink.

first off bitch I aint white..second off I ain’t payin for no sex I rather buy a rolex…I like blondes, tanned bitches, brunettes..meh..yah meh..haters not welcome…gold diggers and stuck up bitches take a hike…I definitely don’t have time for people who don’t got time for me…I’m not down to earth..think of me as a bastard that can only please you sexually…I got mad money but I don’t tell anyone…simply don’t be messing that pleasure business s@#t together know what I mean? Or as camron says “ya dig?” I aim high and shoot for higher…college is a big waste of time and I just bang bitches and drink….I drink and smoke..you too? then we gonna get it on tonight… I don’t give a s@#t about stupid people…I don’t chase girls I replace em….yes reread…I don’t chase girls I replace em…reread….many fish in the sea…but one me…and if ur readin this sayin damn this kid is he serious? Yes im serious …i dont need ur approval to say wat i want…capo status..my advice to you cut it, cook it, sell it bitch…now 1, 2, 3 pop bottles

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I bet.

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First marriage is really just a trial run anyway. :)

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dont make getting married about finding someone just for the sake of having someone. you will end up with someone who's looking for the same thing... having someone for the sake of not being alone. then you will end up miserable.

find out what your passion is in life, what your purpose for existence is, and pursue it with everything you have. if you meet someone along the way who is interested in the same thing, then marry her. you will never get bored because instead of being about selfishly getting what you can emotionally out of each other, it will be about being caught up in an adventure greater than yourselves and working towards something bigger as partners.

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For fug sake, no need to rush it. I mean I love being a family man now, but those years in my life where I didn't have to hear "you play too much golf!!1!" were pretty fuggin fun.

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For fug sake, no need to rush it. I mean I love being a family man now, but those years in my life where I didn't have to hear "you play too much golf!!1!" were pretty fuggin fun.

Point taken but my wife and I who was/is a Travel Agent had a hellova lot of fun for 13 years before we decided to do the procreate thing. Of course, now my kid thinks everyone does cruises and spends their vacations in Hawaii. :P

Also, my wife asks me "are you golfing Sunday?", it's never "you play too much golf.".

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From age 15-22 I fugged almost anything that moved. I dated some extremely hot girs (cheerleaders, double Ds and bubble butts, and etc) but later came to realization that its not about ass and tits but about being best friends. I found a girl who I just clicked with I knew she'd be there for me when I need her the most. You cannot have an argument free relationship so it's how you get through rough times and etc. When all these pieces fall in place, I knew she's was the one... General Rule of thumb... If you get into big argument within first 4 weeks of dating, she's probably not the one.

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Most married guys will say "don't do it - being single is the shiznit!"

I've been married for 11 years now. And I've always been a bit jealous of the single guys living the dream, but the grass isn't always greener on the other side.

Good luck, and take your time.

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How long did it take you to find your mate?

Or better yet, how many partners did you go through before finding the one that made you say. "I'm keeping this one."?

Currently, I've gone through 5 REAL GFs and I can't seem to seal the deal. Won't get into the details of it but I'd like to know from your experiences how many did you go through before getting hitched?

I'm at the point of my life that I just want to settle down, seems I'm the only one though. Which kind of sucks. O_O

The trick is not to try. You'll know when you're with her.

I got married when I was 21. Like CWG, I was young, immature, self-centered. My wife was a little older. Much more mature and family - oriented. We had absolutely nothing in common. But we got along great. We clicked. With our completely different upbringings and family backgrounds, our personalities meshed.

We've been very happily married for 11 years now.

I don't know what you'd consider a "real" GF. Before her, the longest I'd "dated" anyone was about 7 or 8 months. At that age (under 20) you only really have one thing on mind. I wasn't really big on dating, but I did it and realized how psycho women can be. Its very easy to find the wrong ones. For me, it was just the realization that she wasn't one of those "wrong ones". She turned out to be even better than I could have ever imagined.

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Met my wife my sophomore year of high school. We dated for a few months and then moved on to seeing other people. We had a lot of common friends through high school and beyond so we were constantly at the same parties and saw each other often. Ran into her in a bar a few years after high school and we had a couple of drinks together. We're married less than a year later and last Monday marked 24 years.

Between us going out in high school and getting back together I had what I would consider only one other serious relationship. I was with a girl for 2 years and even gave her a ring but really we were not good for each other and we knew it.

For us the second time it was never as much a decision to come to as it was just a foregone conclusion. We just knew it was right. I won't say we knew that first night but within the first several weeks we could tell it was different and by 4 months in we were talking about it.

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