So you are saying that you believe the analogies below? That they should all render their service without a choice?
"The fact you believe I should be forced to throw away my beliefs for someone else, that the NCAA should be forced to have their games in a place they don't feel comfortable having them, that Jimmy Buffet/Bruce Springsteen ABSOLUTELY must have a concert somewhere he doesn't want to, that an African American man must design a website for the KKK if asked is RIDICULOUS. Why? Shouldn't it be their decision to make?"
Also, if I wanted to ban gay marriage, that would make me intolerant. Because even though it requires nothing of me, I still believed it should be shut down. That's intolerance. I tolerate it, but I shouldn't be forced to be included in the ceremony. I tolerate their opinions and the behavior, but not someone forcing me to be a part of it. That's completely different.