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#46 Hawk

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Posted 24 September 2012 - 03:21 PM

the good news...you screwing up your life and your fiances life has provided some entertainment for the huddle = winning

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Posted 24 September 2012 - 03:24 PM

Walk away.

The only way that you could ever work this out is if she and you both told no one and tried to put it behind you.

If she has already told family members, you need to run instead of walk away.

P.S. Drunk or not you knew that you were making a really bad decision and chose to move forward anyway.

P.S.S hope you didn't give her the ring on a holiday or birthday, because now it's hers.

#48 thefuzz

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Posted 24 September 2012 - 03:24 PM

Also, need to see pics of both to see how bad you screwed up.

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Posted 24 September 2012 - 03:29 PM

even if you both told nobody...which is obviously a little too late for that!!!...marriage is built on trust and imagine what she'd be thinking every time you went out, or every time you had a couple too many beer or whatever.

I know some people can recover their marriage after one cheats, but I just can't see it being the same...you know, unless it was an open relationship!!!!

#50 Mrs Pantherfan

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Posted 24 September 2012 - 03:30 PM

which one makes a better sammich?

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Posted 24 September 2012 - 07:56 PM

I broke it off

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Posted 24 September 2012 - 08:38 PM

poo happens bro. It's a lesson, hope u will learn it and move on. It's not the end of the world, its just another page in ur book you call life. Ur fiance was not the right person for you. When u'll meet the right girl, she will grub u by ur cock and will never let go.

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Posted 24 September 2012 - 08:42 PM

we still need pics

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Posted 24 September 2012 - 08:56 PM

Cheating sucks, but a lot of people do it (statistically I think about half of men and 1/3 of women do it at some point). IMO, doing it once just means you are human and made a mistake. Deal with it, learn from it, and move on with your life. Now I have met some guys who do it on a regular basis, and seem to take some perverse pride in being able to get away with it. Those guys are scum.

Fwiw, you might still end up with her at some point down the road, or you might find someone you are better suited for.

#55 Miaoww

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Posted 24 September 2012 - 09:17 PM

This is why my policy is to never have sex.......... I've said too much.

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Posted 24 September 2012 - 09:39 PM

ahh the old let me be the big ole douche so SHE has to be the one to pull the trigger on the relationship. nik, man up and tell her your inner soul and if she drops you like 8th grade algebra, don't pat yourself on the back, but vow never EVER to hurt another woman ever again. especially one who treated you like gold.

#57 Niner National

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Posted 24 September 2012 - 10:00 PM

ahh the old let me be the big ole douche so SHE has to be the one to pull the trigger on the relationship. nik, man up and tell her your inner soul and if she drops you like 8th grade algebra, don't pat yourself on the back, but vow never EVER to hurt another woman ever again. especially one who treated you like gold.

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He said a few posts ago he broke things off with her tonight.

#58 pstall

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Posted 24 September 2012 - 10:01 PM

ahh. missed that part. well good for nik then. hope things work out for both.

#59 cookinbrak

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Posted 24 September 2012 - 11:59 PM

my dog loves penis.

You can tell yourself that, but it doesn't make it right.....

#60 thefuzz

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Posted 25 September 2012 - 11:54 AM

Good luck man.

That's gotta be tough.

Now shoot me a pic of her and I will let you know if I need the digits.