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#37 Epistaxis

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Posted 06 November 2012 - 02:52 PM

Why do you care?

#38 Mrs Pantherfan

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Posted 06 November 2012 - 02:52 PM

OH MY, Kurb

Epi...it's not a question on whether or not he'd act on said flirtations...but I know for me it's definitely a boost to the 'ole self esteem. It's always nice to hear when someone that you don't know thinks you're pretty or handsome

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Posted 06 November 2012 - 02:54 PM

welll i dont know whats happened but had i known a little salt and pepper gray would have gotten me this much attention/looks/comments etc i would have got a little gray when i was 20

mucho locas

#40 Zcustom

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Posted 06 November 2012 - 02:56 PM

OH MY, Kurb

Epi...it's not a question on whether or not he'd act on said flirtations...but I know for me it's definitely a boost to the 'ole self esteem. It's always nice to hear when someone thinks you're pretty or handsome


Are you fishing for compliments???

Cuz you know how handsome I think you are

#41 Mrs Pantherfan

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Posted 06 November 2012 - 02:56 PM

thanks, Z...you always know how to cheer a gal up

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Posted 06 November 2012 - 03:13 PM

actually I could tell you a story that would cheer you up but it might also creep you out so I'll just abstain, pretty lady

#43 Darth Biscuit

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Posted 06 November 2012 - 03:16 PM

actually I could tell you a story that would cheer you up but it might also creep you out so I'll just abstain, pretty lady


It's one thing to tell someone in person how attractive they are (ie, give them a compliment) it's a whole other ballgame on the internet... intent/inflection/humor is often lost in the words.

#44 Epistaxis

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Posted 06 November 2012 - 03:18 PM

OH MY, Kurb

Epi...it's not a question on whether or not he'd act on said flirtations...but I know for me it's definitely a boost to the 'ole self esteem. It's always nice to hear when someone that you don't know thinks you're pretty or handsome



ok

I dunno. I guess I just don't care very much what random women think I look like.

I never even assumed he was talking about acting on such interactions.

I guess I just don't get the need for validation.

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Posted 06 November 2012 - 03:18 PM

Why do you care?

As MPF said, it's just the confidence boost it gives you.

Kind of like the whole "my mom says I'm the most handsome boy in the world." Well, now it's my wife, which is awesome, that's why she married me. But, we have three children together and she knows the best and worst of me, personality included - which gives me extra points, lol. She has extra incentive to say such things.

So, if a woman I don't know and haven't talked to approaches me or flirts with me, just so I can kindly say "No, thank you. I'm married." It really makes you feel like you're not walking around look like Lurch, unbeknownst to you, lol.

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Posted 06 November 2012 - 03:19 PM

is that why all my posts suck?

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Posted 06 November 2012 - 03:21 PM

ok

I dunno. I guess I just don't care very much what random women think I look like.

I never even assumed he was talking about acting on such interactions.

I guess I just don't get the need for validation.


And to this point, it's not so much about validation. Or maybe it is in the sense that it happened so much from 16-25 or so, that when it suddenly isn't happening anymore, it makes you question yourself.

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Posted 06 November 2012 - 03:23 PM

is that why all my posts suck?

because your fingers are too fat?


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