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#1 FurdTurgason

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Posted 07 December 2012 - 05:15 AM

Not what you're expecting.

http://www.huffingto..._n_2250814.html


She didn't give him money. She gave him food every day and more importantly, she treated him with dignity. Great story.

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Posted 07 December 2012 - 06:14 AM

FANTASTIC story.

Giving him food and helping someone in need was great. But what really made this special was the fact that she took time to get to know him, sit down and have lunch with him over and over......basically treat him like any other "friend" that you would have.

This girl has amazing heart and character.....just amazing.

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Posted 07 December 2012 - 06:24 AM

Which is what we should do,

Do what is right and without expectations or stipulations

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Posted 07 December 2012 - 11:52 AM

Which is what we should do,

Do what is right and without expectations or stipulations



Totally agree. Where we part is the giving them money thing. You say it's up to them what they do with it and it's out of your hands at that point. I say if I know what they're going to do with it, I'm not helping them. They got drunk and I'm out money that I could have used more wisely.

What this girl did was what all of us should do.

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Posted 07 December 2012 - 12:13 PM

Well that and we decided as a country we should just let our crazy people wander the streets rather than have them in institutions.

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Posted 07 December 2012 - 12:36 PM

Totally agree. Where we part is the giving them money thing. You say it's up to them what they do with it and it's out of your hands at that point. I say if I know what they're going to do with it, I'm not helping them. They got drunk and I'm out money that I could have used more wisely.

What this girl did was what all of us should do.


You don't know and are stereotyping. What if you gave out 100 $100 bills. 99 people went out and spent it on drugs...but 1 person it truly helped out.

Was it not worth it?

I say yes.

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Posted 07 December 2012 - 12:45 PM

Well that and we decided as a country we should just let our crazy people wander the streets rather than have them in institutions.

We didn't decide that as a country. Some specific people decided it.

http://www.nytimes.c...?pagewanted=all

#8 FurdTurgason

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Posted 07 December 2012 - 12:52 PM

You don't know and are stereotyping. What if you gave out 100 $100 bills. 99 people went out and spent it on drugs...but 1 person it truly helped out.

Was it not worth it?

I say yes.


Really? You've spent $10,000 just to give one person $100.

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Posted 07 December 2012 - 01:01 PM

Really? You've spent $10,000 just to give one person $100.


No it was an example. Sorry but there's no ROI in charity.

If you don't want to give money to them, then don't.... just don't discourage other people from being charitable just because of anecdotal evidence or/and stereotypical assumptions.

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Posted 07 December 2012 - 01:10 PM

No it was an example. Sorry but there's no ROI in charity.



I think there is. The return is watching that person get back on their feet, or that animal or whatever cause you choose to give your money to. Or maybe it's watching a dying child enjoy a dream weekend before they succumb to the inevitable. Or kids have Christmas gifts they otherwise wouldn't get and seeing the relief in the parents' eyes.

There is most definitely a return on investment in charity.


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