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[LifeisaGarden]

I was having a conversation with my neighbor friend and we got on the subject of how her husband had been jerking of to porn while she was sleeping in the next room. She was upset because "why would he want to jerk off to that when he could have the real thing in the bedroom".
I told her I didn't care if my hubby watched porn, I have watched it with him. It makes for some pretty exciting bedroom time. I've not ever has the issue she was talking about. I'm not a prude and I don't look down on porn and masterbation, but I have to say I would be a little hurt if I knew he was doing it while I was there.
So I was wondering if you fellas have done this with your SO in the next room and whether or not you feel like its wrong or right. Opinions?

[Captroop]

Calling it: Closet case watching sword fights.

[JakeFlake]

Because he knows its wrong, and that is what makes it exciting. The fear that he may get caught.

[Mrs Pantherfan]

He either needs to wait until she's really asleep..or she's not there...

not too bright that one....

[il Malocchio]

Yes I have.. Only because she went to sleep.. No need if shes awake & willing, which she usually is(she usually is willing, but my wife goes to bed earlier than me most nights)... If she is asleep & I need a release then Im going to handle my business, only because she is unavailable at that time. I would rather it be her, but sometimes you have to do what you have to...

My wifes idea of pron is HBOs RealSex, we have never watched even single X together. She got a little upset at me when we first got together because I didnt want to throw away my old Maxims, was still upset after I told her none of the pics were nekkids... She grew up a little sheltered....

[Darth Biscuit]

I would ask her if she's really interested... maybe he feels like she isn't... maybe he isn't as attracted to her as he could be... maybe he likes porn more than he likes her... could be any number of reasons.

Sounds like she needs to talk with him about it.


LiaG your view on it is normal and healthy imo... it can be something that can be done together to enhance marital sex... not all wives feel that way...

A lot of women don't understand that men are much more stimulated visually which is why we like porn.

[Mrs Pantherfan]

Maybe Catpoop is right...He liketh the penis

[catfang]

never pass up an opty for a quick release.

I would if she was really tired and not in the mood or asleep and I needed to. Otherwise I like the real thing.

[Panthers Nation]

Her vagina must not be that good,ask her is she wet.Men like wet tight vagina not loose dry vagina.She needs to seriously look at her vagina for the blame because any man who chooses his own hand over some vagina cleary he doesn't enjoy stroking the vagina.

[Jase]

I do it to keep my A game. If I know I'm not going to get any that night, I'll do it.

The reason being that my wife may want it 5 days in a row, and then not want to be touched for 3 months.

That kind of feast-or-famine approach is harmful to the male physiology. Got to hit the batting cage on the regular.

[ARSEN]

My fiancé believes every guy watches and jerks off to a porn.. She says its a normal thing.

[Floppin]

I've jerked off laying in bed with my woman asleep beside me. Sometimes you just gotta have a release and it's not worth the time and effort to wake her up and do foreplay and all that other nonsense.

[ARSEN]

Floppin superman his woman.

[Panther17]

I was having a conversation with my neighbor friend and we got on the subject of how her husband had been jerking of to porn while she was sleeping in the next room. She was upset because "why would he want to jerk off to that when he could have the real thing in the bedroom".
I told her I didn't care if my hubby watched porn, I have watched it with him. It makes for some pretty exciting bedroom time. I've not ever has the issue she was talking about. I'm not a prude and I don't look down on porn and masterbation, but I have to say I would be a little hurt if I knew he was doing it while I was there.
So I was wondering if you fellas have done this with your SO in the next room and whether or not you feel like its wrong or right. Opinions?

I've done it laying beside my wife in bed sleeping. I go by the she has first right of refusal rule. If she turns me down, I'm doing it myself but she doesn't get to watch and enjoy it with me.

[LifeisaGarden]

Why shouldn't she get to watch? It might get her in the mood. Your being mad is certainly not going to get her in the mood.


There have been times when I'm not in the mood but its usually for a damn good reason. Not just because I just don't wanna. Most times if I don't want to have sex, I'll give him a little ball rubbin' while he's taking care of his business.

There have been times when he's not in the mood. We have to deal with our needs too. This usually changes his mood.