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Floppin superman his woman.

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I was having a conversation with my neighbor friend and we got on the subject of how her husband had been jerking of to porn while she was sleeping in the next room. She was upset because "why would he want to jerk off to that when he could have the real thing in the bedroom".

I told her I didn't care if my hubby watched porn, I have watched it with him. It makes for some pretty exciting bedroom time. I've not ever has the issue she was talking about. I'm not a prude and I don't look down on porn and masterbation, but I have to say I would be a little hurt if I knew he was doing it while I was there.

So I was wondering if you fellas have done this with your SO in the next room and whether or not you feel like its wrong or right. Opinions?

I've done it laying beside my wife in bed sleeping. I go by the she has first right of refusal rule. If she turns me down, I'm doing it myself but she doesn't get to watch and enjoy it with me.

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Why shouldn't she get to watch? It might get her in the mood. Your being mad is certainly not going to get her in the mood.

There have been times when I'm not in the mood but its usually for a damn good reason. Not just because I just don't wanna. Most times if I don't want to have sex, I'll give him a little ball rubbin' while he's taking care of his business.

There have been times when he's not in the mood. We have to deal with our needs too. This usually changes his mood. ;)

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I was having a conversation with my neighbor friend and we got on the subject of how her husband had been jerking of to porn while she was sleeping in the next room. She was upset because "why would he want to jerk off to that when he could have the real thing in the bedroom".

I told her I didn't care if my hubby watched porn, I have watched it with him. It makes for some pretty exciting bedroom time. I've not ever has the issue she was talking about. I'm not a prude and I don't look down on porn and masterbation, but I have to say I would be a little hurt if I knew he was doing it while I was there.

So I was wondering if you fellas have done this with your SO in the next room and whether or not you feel like its wrong or right. Opinions?

They definantly need to discuss this. I don't see a problem with his behavior other than the secrecy. However, some women feel offended when their man resorts to porn and masturbation. With the beauty complex our society imposes on women, it could create feeling that she isn't pretty/hot enough for him anymore.

Her vagina must not be that good,ask her is she wet.Men like wet tight vagina not loose dry vagina.She needs to seriously look at her vagina for the blame because any man who chooses his own hand over some vagina cleary he doesn't enjoy stroking the vagina.

You should really never give advice. The huddle community would be better if you logged off and never came back.

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Perfectly normal. Neighbor has nothing to worry about from that alone. If there's a number of other issues all over the place, that's a different story.

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sometimes you just gotta rip one out...no pressure, no nothing...just go

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sometimes you just gotta rip one out...no pressure, no nothing...just go

If you're ripping during masturbation, you're doing it wrong.

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I wouldn't have an issue if my girlfriend wanted to watch with me...but sometimes I just want to be left the hell alone and rub one out. Maybe it's the same with him? Hell, maybe his wife is so bad he would rather watch porn than be intimate with her?

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sometimes I get crazy turning pages!!!!

<<< old enough to remember pre internet self love

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Most of the time that I handle my business is because I cant fall asleep. A chemical is released in the body as a result of the money shot that makes you go to sleep... Fug an ambien, Im roughin the suspect....

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Why shouldn't she get to watch? It might get her in the mood. Your being mad is certainly not going to get her in the mood.

There have been times when I'm not in the mood but its usually for a damn good reason. Not just because I just don't wanna. Most times if I don't want to have sex, I'll give him a little ball rubbin' while he's taking care of his business.

There have been times when he's not in the mood. We have to deal with our needs too. This usually changes his mood. ;)

It does help get her in the mood. Some times I don't want to have to do all that work though. If she tells me no on a day like that, I just take care of it my self. Or if she has been on a not in the mood for over a month kick, she's not going to get to watch if she isn't helping.

By the way, I've never told her no even if I wasn't in the mood. I've even faked getting off on ocassions that i wasn't in the mood. I would never tell my wife no when she is in need. I could be sick as a dog and still would service my woman if she wanted it.

I never want to be told no my self. A fair warning when it is that time of the month is the only thing required. No should not be in the vocabulary unless it is followed by don't stop.

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of course she say..why would he watch that if the real thing is here...

Real Answer: Would he be watching porn if the bedroom was really available...I say no.

Real Answer number 2: Sometimes the runaway cast as a Babysitter is just soo naughty and is a fantasy that the wifey wouldn't understand.

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