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Good to see the art of letter writing is not lost in New Bern

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is that over a 3 month period? do i post 24 hrs a day? ever hear of multi tasking? i can talk on the phone as i post man, its really not that hard.

im uber productive in what i do.i know how to get things done.

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its time to drop this in right here

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pstall have you ever studied psychology? have you ever known someone who is a psychologist? specializes in adult behavior? have they had clients or couples or w/e that are like the people you describe?

it's obvious you don't. otherwise you wouldn't keep perpetuating this myth of beer summits actually doing a goddamn thing in 99% of these cases. ffs just stop posting.

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i have friends who are psychologists who have published books. not guys who write a blog or post on boards. they actually have gone to New York and spoke face to face with someone who took their ideas and made into a book.

what's interesting is the fear of sitting down with someone. the reason is maybe some are clinging to their misconceptions or biases and its so comfy, like a snuggy, that to come out of your comfort zone is debilitating.

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pstall have you ever studied psychology? have you ever known someone who is a psychologist? specializes in adult behavior? have they had clients or couples or w/e that are like the people you describe?

it's obvious you don't. otherwise you wouldn't keep perpetuating this myth of beer summits actually doing a goddamn thing in 99% of these cases. ffs just stop posting.

I'm pretty sure there is place for jews and nazis on this Earth at the same time. er..

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yes. lets keep playing the tetris confirmation bias game.

and i thought honey boo boo fans were shallow. boy was i wrong.

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i can't speak for mr. zula but i have in fact "sat down and talked" with tons of conservatives; it happens when you grow up in a rural southern town. i'm actually sensing some projection from you, as well as the same old concern trolling "BOTH SIDES ARE BAD" (in this case, self righteous) bullshit used to attempt to discredit the "other side" when "your side" is out sending letters to gay people to let them know that they're an abomination

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saying your side is also projecting.

let me give you the cliff notes real quick to save you time from puffing your chest on your "insights".

cwg starts thread. guy wrote a letter and was called out on it. tbt comes out here and shares what he believes. he then gets thrased and someone says something about him being an inbred. which, is a very intellectual thing to say.

so i try to save tbt some time and energy by saying that when it comes to this topic, if he gives any inkling of disagreeing with it, he is going to be labeled a bigot and to be ready for that. i didnt say he was right or wrong.

then the self rightesous police come out because since the other guy is not agreeing with them on being gay, he is a bigot and they are the far superior part of the human race.

so i go well, not wanting to spend anytime with a person you deem a bigot doesn't seem very productive. in fact, to me, looks about as productive as the guy writing the letter.

then they didn't like that and of course you don't like it and are trying to find your own personal loophole and diminish what i said by hiding behind the two sides are bad thingy.

so if you guys think there is zero shot at being able to have a conversation with someone who is different than you, then why bother posting? what is it you are really trying to accomplish? if its not to move the ball down the field on a particular topic than perhaps its you guys who are projecting?

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who seriously falls for concern trolling in this day and age?

you

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you

you are supposed to make "teh libs" fight amongst themselves. you admit you're a troll then?

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no man. im not trolling.

i stand by my point that being unwilling to talk or communicate with someone, even if they are at a cro magnon level on how they view things, is as detrimental to mankind as the very person you disagree with.

each side, lib or conversative brings good and bad things to the table. the key is finding the common ground and move forward on whatever the disagreement is about. is it foolproof? of course not. but it's worth trying.

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