Saying it's the "other side of the coin" gives it a validity it does not deserve.
You've misquoted me. I said " the other side of the SAME coin" the validity is therefore inherent. You are trying to say his point of contention is incorrect. What I am saying is both conditions can be and are present.
Just because something is outside of YOUR box doesn't make it untrue or stupid. I encourage different points of view on this forum. I've learned from different points of view on this forum. They should be respected.