When I see effeminate all I can think of is a gay male who acts like woman.
Are metro sexuals effeminate? Maybe so.
As for Rodeo's post
Preachers are supposed to be meek. Meek and Effeminate are not the same. Women by old world standards were meek so many confuse the two.
Maybe you should mind your own fuging business and not care who is gay or effeminate regardless of what your magic sky fairy tells you.