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[Scrumtrilescent]

We can write letters to each other. Practice our penmanship. It'll be fun.

[Johnny Rockets]

no!! your updates are funnay!

Well thank you..your updates crack me up as well......but most days it's just much more trouble than it's worth. Remind me to fill you in one day..you will find it all rather amusing.

[Kurb]

Well thank you..your updates crack me up as well......but most days it's just much more trouble than it's worth. Remind me to fill you in one day..you will find it all rather amusing.

Awww man I miss everything

[Panthers_Lover]

Make-up sex and apologize(maybe while you're making love to her?) but, anyway you have to let it go.

Definitely NO APOLOGIES during sex!!!

[Panthers_Lover]

HA! I just stalked and found you ... I feel creepy now

everything has been said really...though I will say...If she was really doing something bad, she would've deleted the texts...since she didn't...she's good...or she's not very bright...no offense..just sayin

Or, she wants him to know ... she knows he's insecure and going to check up on her.

[Scrumtrilescent]

That'd be devious and underhanded. Nowhere in the realm of womanhood.

[Mrs Pantherfan]

Definitely NO APOLOGIES during sex!!!

this made me laugh LOL

unless it's dirty and inappropriate..don't talk during sex

[Scrumtrilescent]

We talk about fluid dynamics and the applicability during teh sexaytime.


.......nerdlove......

[Panthers_Lover]

this made me laugh LOL

unless it's dirty and inappropriate..don't talk during sex

Exactly!

[thefuzz]

You are 22. I would try to find a few hanging around my neck of the woods and give it a shot.

Honestly, I would tell her that neither one of you are mature enough to be in a serious relationship right now, and we need to make some changes.

You should not have done what you did, and she should not be texting/hanging out with a dude that blasted her recently. Not trying to be a dick here, but you are both too immature for what you are doing.

I was in a very similar situation back in the day, and I wish my 31 year old me could have texted my 22 year old me with the above advice.

[Dxterity]

this made me laugh LOL

unless it's dirty and inappropriate..don't talk during sex

you must be tired.

[beach]

It sounds like she must be quite the catch and like many who are, there are a handful of guys trying to play the long game with her once you two are done. Also, she's most likely enjoying the attention especially given you are not in the same area. Going through her phone is bad and now that you told her you did so, will have to pay the consequences.

Doesn't sound like there's much transparency in the relationship and an overall lack of trust. Pretty big red flags. Y'all are just gonna have to talk things through and see what's up. Communication is everything. Unless you're really feeling it, this should be a stepping stone type deal. No use wasting either of y'all's time unless you think there's something there.

[stirs]

First bad move--going through her phone

Next bad move--coming here for advice.

You are O for 2. I think she should run and never look back

[pstall]

ahh, kids in love. haha

as many said not a good move on checking the phone. i think the deal with texting and fb etc is its made people so lazy in relationships or even flirting. kills the game totally.

at 22 i totally enjoyed my freedom and i suggest you do the same. don't bog yourself down with feeling like you HAVE to have a gf. don't be a scuzz either and hook up with any chick you see tho.

the next month you will see if she is right for you or not. but i can tell you you are not at the top of the list. you are ON the list, but not at the top of hers. sorry man.

but focus on just having fun and kicking your classes butt and enjoy life and and the girls will flock to you.

like i have said before. focus on the cake, you get the candles. focus on the candles, you ALWAYS get the cake.

[PhillyB]

you've been with her since age 15?

this explains a lot.