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#13 Johnny Rockets

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Posted 23 January 2013 - 03:20 PM

My son just got into Sigma Phi Epsilon and moved into the house a couple weeks ago. He was nervous about telling me that he was going to rush a frat but when he finally told me and explain how important it was to him I was totally behind him. He said he never wanted anything more in his life so I can understand your disappointment to an extent.

Sorry to hear you didn't get in...but like Kurb said, you can enjoy the college experience without it and sometimes missed opportunities are the best opportunities in the long run.Use it to motivate you to bigger and better things. Hell, at least you are saving money. What my son should have been nervous about telling me wasn't that he was going to rush but that it was going to cost me an extra $900 a semester!!!!! Of course he told me after the fact. Sneaky little bastard...Use the money you would spend at the frat and do something more productive with it. Best of luck to you.

#14 Scrumtrilescent

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Posted 23 January 2013 - 03:21 PM

1. Go to college at the beach with 67% females.
2. Wander to every party you feel like going to.
3. ??????
4. Profit.

#15 thatlookseasy

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Posted 23 January 2013 - 03:27 PM

Like others said, its not a big deal. There are plenty of ways to make friends as long as you're willing to get out of your room and go do things. Go play basketball, join a club, find a good smoke spot, you'll meet people

The sorostitutes are overrated anyways, most are boring and just looking to get that MRS degree

#16 Kurb

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Posted 23 January 2013 - 03:33 PM

Athletic clubs are actually a great way to meet folks.

Did no one you knew go to UT as well?


Im sure you could find tons of social clubs that are interested in the same things you.

#17 Doc Holiday

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Posted 23 January 2013 - 03:35 PM

1. Go to college at the beach with 67% females.
2. Wander to every party you feel like going to.
3. ??????
4. Profit.

collage of charleston? If you don't get laid by a hottie there you are gay!

#18 Mrs Pantherfan

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Posted 23 January 2013 - 03:36 PM

If you cannot score some tail at UT...you're doing something wrong :)

#19 Scrumtrilescent

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Posted 23 January 2013 - 03:37 PM

Tooths optional.

#20 Floppin

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Posted 23 January 2013 - 03:37 PM

I grew up in a college town. Trust me when I say that being a part of a fraternity is not required to be able to enjoy the college party/social scene.

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Posted 23 January 2013 - 03:38 PM

Tooths optional.


Teeths. Who needs em.

#22 TNPanther

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Posted 23 January 2013 - 03:45 PM

If you cannot score some tail at UT...you're doing something wrong :)


I mean I've gotten laid quite a few times, but that's not what I'm in it for. I just want to feel like I'm a part of and belong to something. I want to establish an identity for myself.

#23 Mrs Pantherfan

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Posted 23 January 2013 - 03:47 PM

I mean I've gotten laid quite a few times, but that's not what I'm in it for. I just want to feel like I'm a part of and belong to something. I want to establish an identity for myself.


I know what you mean..good luck to you..please don't let it bother you too much...there are plenty of people out there

#24 Kurb

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Posted 23 January 2013 - 03:49 PM

I mean I've gotten laid quite a few times, but that's not what I'm in it for. I just want to feel like I'm a part of and belong to something. I want to establish an identity for myself.



Then do that.
You don't need a title or be a member of something.
Do you want to determine who you are or do you want someone else to do it ?