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Help for the Sexually Inexperienced

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Darth Biscuit    12,579

In my experience communication is key. The two of them probably have different expectations And goals, if they don't talk about it, it'll all go wrong fast.

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lightsout    2,437

Tell him the following:

1) Be REALLY stressed about it. Don't control breathing. Be worried from the minute the kissing and rubbing starts that you won't last long. That always helps.

2) Don't wear a condom. Condoms will actually make it feel better, which will make him finish faster.

3) The SECOND you go in, IMMEDIATELY start thinking of NOTHING but how awesome it feels. Don't let other distractions cloud your head.

4) It's a race. Finish before she does. Then laugh at her for losing

5) ????

6) Profit?

Maybe it's the exact opposite of ALL of those. *shrugs*

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LifeisaGarden    137

Lol. They are just inexperienced and want to know how other people go at it.

Its been really fun helping these two. And just so you know, I'm not in the bedroom with them, I'm just giving information. Today he sent me a message and thanks me fo helping. :)

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CarolinaNCSU    5,234

I don't know his viewing habits, and it can potentially set him up for the wrong things, but does he watch porn? He can see different positions/things to do, etc.

If all else fails, just tell him that practice makes perfect.

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lightsout    2,437

Honestly, for inexperienced people (actually, anybody), foreplay is always important. Some people like to rush to the actual thing, which is OK for those nooners, but not when you have time to spare. Spend a while in foreplay. Figure out the body a bit. Know what works. Obviously, confidence is key. Go in doubting yourself and it'll be awkward and clumsy and just not much fun. I'm sure you've mentioned that, but I stress it because I know for a while when I was just starting to have sex, me and my girl had about 20-30 minutes of foreplay. She loved to tease....sometimes too much. -_-

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