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I like doggy style...in the living room so we can both watch the game and in the kitchen so she can make me a sammich

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I mean what has caused this to come up?

Dude doesn't know what he is doing ?

They both don't know what they are doing ?

She/He can finish ?

He finishes to soon ?

I don't understand the issue...

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He just want LIAG to talk dirty to him. He's a genius.

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Omgoodness this is more like it! I'm sitting in the doctor's office and I'm slightly embarrassed because a few of these people keep looking at me. I must be blushing. Lol

Yeah he doesn't know what to do with it. He says he doest really know the right spots to hit and for some reason she's too shy to explain what she wants. Once upon a time i felt shy too, and how unsatisfying it is. Fortunately, there was a person like that showed me the ropes too!

I gave him a anatomy lesson. Before your mind goes to the gutter the lesson was purely educational with illustrated diagrams.

Arsen, you might be right. He could be a genius.

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Sounds like you handled it pretty well... maybe u need to talk to her.

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Oh and on the topic of control... during sex is one of the few times I like being controlled. So yes, women like it. The thing for me is to say yes or no and enjoy it.

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How did u met him? Or its someone u working with?

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Just a local friend I met playing mmorpg.

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Oh. That's nice. Just be careful, lots of weirdos out there.

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Oh and on the topic of control... during sex is one of the few times I like being controlled. So yes, women like it. The thing for me is to say yes or no and enjoy it.

Sounds like maybe you need to talk to my wife too...

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Omgoodness this is more like it! I'm sitting in the doctor's office and I'm slightly embarrassed because a few of these people keep looking at me. I must be blushing. Lol

Yeah he doesn't know what to do with it. He says he doest really know the right spots to hit and for some reason she's too shy to explain what she wants. Once upon a time i felt shy too, and how unsatisfying it is. Fortunately, there was a person like that showed me the ropes too!

I gave him a anatomy lesson. Before your mind goes to the gutter the lesson was purely educational with illustrated diagrams.

Arsen, you might be right. He could be a genius.

Sounds more like he has a severe lack of self confidence and is desperate.

Are they married or just dating ?

*** The following has been true in my experience and may not apply to all, YMMV ***

First thing he needs to understand is his lack of confidence is affecting this situation I would assume. One of the biggest things that helped me change from "Just a Guy" in the sack to someone that had a rep for his performance (a good one thanks). Was confidence that I knew what I could do and accomplish when I got a lady in the bedroom.

He has to KNOW a couple things mentally before he can get the job done physically.

1) She wants is as bad as he does. Simple fact, many forget.

2) While he is centrally a visual creature sexual and then a emotional creature, she is the exact opposite. In MANY cases a woman's mind has to be prepared before he body will start to respond. I've found this is the issue with lots of marriages that fail in the sex department. Hubby forgets to fug the mind before he fugs the body.

3) There is nothing more natural than this event. The parts were made to go together, put them together and good things will happen.

Once he gets his confidence in check things will start to open up (no pun) for them.

Doing the Reverse Cowgirl blindfolded and covered in baby oil is fun and all, but if you don't handle the other things first it's just another cock going in a poonpoon.

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Yes I am good at teh sex. Yes I am arrogant about it.

Sounds like you handled it pretty well... maybe u need to talk to her.

That runs about a 50/50 chance of being exceptionally destructive.

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i will make a bitch shake like a car on bad gas going uphill

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