I honestly don't get why women don't like giving oral. Yeah, I don't like being shot in the face just like everyone else, so just aim it somewhere else or have a towel handy for fast cleanup.
Idk maybe I'm one of the elite or something, I enjoy it. Sometimes it bothers my tmj but if you know what you're doing and know how to work your tongue the process doesn't last long.
There shouldn't be any shame in fapping or playing the clitar. Masterbation is not bad mmmkay,