I love to just drop it off and they don't know where it came from. I had a niece that was in need. Husband had walked out on her and 2 kids. I put a weeks worth of groceries on the porch and she was telling everyone that she couldn't believe what had happened. To this day she doesn't know where it came from. She has since gotten squared away and those kids have grown into fine young men. I'm proud of her accomplishments. Anyway, enough of that. I hope everyone that can, will do something for those that can't.
When it comes to feeding kids don't be ashamed to let the local fire department, church, etc. know what you need. There's plenty of people that will help and enjoy doing it. Those true people that help doesn't ask for a thing in return. If I needed help, I wouldn't hesitate.