Posted by Saxist Fed
on 21 December 2013 - 04:55 AM
Updated situation and yes, I've got my sh*t together now:
When we broke up, she became a third wheel with our best friend-couple and in our final week together had dropped a line about "Would you consider me a home-wrecker?".
Previous to this, I had mentioned how her best-friend's boyfriend was really cool and someone I'd want to hang out with as good friends. So we starting hitting the gym together and grabbing beers talking about the girls and their shenanigans. She noticed my bromance and wanted to make me jealous. Now, she is destroying her best friend/co-worker's relationship and lost me for good.
To expand on the OP for context, she invited this couple and me two her fam's thanksgiving. She flirted with him there and completely ignored me in front of her family and even went out to get beer with him leaving me and this guy's girlfriend/her-best-friend at her aunt and uncle's house. As mentioned, I broke it off finally the next day.
We had absolutely zero contact until my b-day recently and ran into her during my downtown celebration. It was here where she was in a skimpy skirt wearing a f*cking tiara (she's 23 btw...who does that?) and honestly looked like a piece of white trash completely different from anything I've seen of her. My good bud/this boyfriend of her best friend took me aside and told me how him and his GF have been getting in huge fights about my ex's flirting with him and he thinks my ex is trying to f*ck him. He even goes onto say that my ex is a beautiful girl with a great personality. Also mentioned she is constantly asking people about me, how I'm doing, and if I was seeing anyone (which I've been). I told him that it was between the two girls and not my problem.
I then finally confronted her later in the night very drunk and dished it all out. About how she played me like a fiddle, never listened to me, treated me like sh*t, has no future the way she's acting in life....I didn't even let her talk and was pretty brutal. She then cried for a while and to make a long story short stole my cell phone. Again this is all on my birthday night. She tried to go home with some of her friends but they denied her saying she treated me like crap and wanted nothing to do with her.
So...she was drunk as crap and had nowhere to crash so her best friend (the GF of this loving couple who live together) brought her back to their place. So on my actual birthday, I pick up my stolen cell phone from my ex GF at their house where I not only has 19 missed calls from grandparents, relatives, but even a major job offer I was expecting.
The past few days I've been getting messages fro her "friends" about how I deserve better and am too nice of a guy to let this all effect me.
So it's painfully obvious that she wanted to make me jealous and in the process is destroying her best friends relationship and lost me. The thing is, I'm the catch, I'm out of her little league, and she's the terrible person. Seriously, what a terrible person.