I know this thread is long so maybe it's too much to ask to read everything. But yes, I have had an uncomfortable locker room experiencing involving someone that happens to be gay. I've already told the story earlier. A dude asked me out, I told him no....he stared me down everytime we happen to be at the gym the same time.
Most gay men are respectful.....but not all.
I'm sorry that happened to you. He was disrespectful, there are disrespectful people everywhere that fug up peoples days everyday