Effeminate is used in the New testatment.
I Challenge you to show me an effeminate man and prove he is not gay. There are of cousre 2 types of gay men the effeminate ones and the more manly ones...... See what I did there... yeah Effeminate is in the new testament.
Dont' confuse with meek with effeminate. Jesus was meek.
prince is "effeminate" but gets more pussy than you get hot meals