Posted by ThaJackal
on 08 September 2013 - 12:17 AM
Anyone who goes to this place, after this bullshit, and considers themselves a fan of the local team; please don't consider yourself a fan of the local team anymore. I just don't get. I already posted a topic about this a few years back. I am sick of bars/restaurants in the Charlotte area (hell in NC or SC) that consider themselves a Steelers bar, Cowboys bar, etc. fug off! Big Als... RJ Gators... Duckworths... GO TO HELL! These "establishments" rank right up there with ambulance chasers. Anything to make a buck. I can only hope these shitbirds are out of business by the end of Sept.
So I guess I'm in the minority here as I was Greek in college. TN, I'll be honest: joining Lambda Chi was one of the best decisions I ever made. I have lifelong friends and our bond goes deeper than that of my other/high school friends. It never once hindered my ability to have a good GPA (if anything I spent more time in the library due to mandatory study hall every week) and it truly made my college experience unique and memorable.
That being said, the worst thing you can do is join the wrong fraternity/chapter or join one that is only about drinking and hazing. If it's meant to be, the right organization will give you a bid. You could even try to rush again and talk to different chapters the next time around. If you don't get a bid or decide not to try again, then find other ways to get yourself involved on campus. Intramurals, clubs, whatever it may be. Make some friends in different dorms, and branch out as best you can.
I will say this, though: joining a fraternity is great for networking after you leave college. It's nice to create connections either through active or alumni brothers for help in getting a job.