Go fug yourself.
Make a "almost cooked your kid" remark to my face and I will give you an ass kicking that your grand kids will not forget.
Poor wording aside he does have a point. When you relayed your story this was my initial thought as well. How could someone who has gone through such an experience still have the same world view you do. I would think you would in general show a bit more humility and empathy, Instead of your usual "you suck and your lazy if you don't make as much money as I do" diatribe.