My wife just got a bit grumpy out of the blue with me, but I was doing taxes so I just let it go.
She came back a bit later and apologized and was tearing up. Said she's just shook up by it. Not so much because of who he is, but that there's a mom somewhere who just lost her husband and her daughter at the same time and now has to explain to a 3 year old why their sister and daddy won't be there anymore.
Downright heartbreaking for any family to have to deal with. So easy to empathize with them having a young family with kids their kids age.
It just hurts in so many ways. I hate it, but I hate it for them so much more.