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If your wife cheats on you with another woman, is it still cheating?


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#41 Captroop

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Posted 28 February 2013 - 03:02 PM

I've wondered this as well. My gf is Bi, and in the past has been in a relationship with another girl, but y'know, college and etc.

She actually asked me if I would consider it cheating if she ever had sex with another woman. I said it would be okay if I was involved. She said no. I said it would be okay if I could film it. She said no. I said it would be okay if I could bang another woman. She said no. Totally inflexible, that woman.

So I asked her why can't I sleep with someone else if you sleep with another woman. If her argument was that her sex with another woman was purely physical, and had no feelings attached to it, then I can say the same for a hot college-aged bar skank. She said it would be okay if I slept with another man, because that would be the equivalent. I said it's not because I'm not attracted to men.

Long story short, we agreed no extracurricular activities on either side.

But knowing that she has inklings, I'm going to be subtly barking up the 3-way tree til doomsday.

#42 thatlookseasy

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Posted 28 February 2013 - 03:08 PM

I've wondered this as well. My gf is Bi, and in the past has been in a relationship with another girl, but y'know, college and etc.

She actually asked me if I would consider it cheating if she ever had sex with another woman. I said it would be okay if I was involved. She said no. I said it would be okay if I could film it. She said no. I said it would be okay if I could bang another woman. She said no. Totally inflexible, that woman.

So I asked her why can't I sleep with someone else if you sleep with another woman. If her argument was that her sex with another woman was purely physical, and had no feelings attached to it, then I can say the same for a hot college-aged bar skank. She said it would be okay if I slept with another man, because that would be the equivalent. I said it's not because I'm not attracted to men.

Long story short, we agreed no extracurricular activities on either side.

But knowing that she has inklings, I'm going to be subtly barking up the 3-way tree til doomsday.


Wow she is quite strict with those rules. You may have to bang a dude just to prove a point

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Posted 28 February 2013 - 03:14 PM

Someone say Thai sex ring?

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Posted 28 February 2013 - 03:15 PM

Jase meet Captroop, Captroop meet Jase.


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Posted 28 February 2013 - 03:18 PM

interesting question. In general yes. Specific cases dictate the exact response to it, but in general sex to me is cheating with a man or woman. Making out might be different depending on the circumstance and what has been discussed.

If the other woman is an Ornthologist than yeah its cheating....


Could someone explain this? I'm curious lol


Chicks that are "bi" or have threesomes on the hoods of cars in parking lots with you are fun, but not wife material.


Why not? It's only a problem if the woman (or man) can't control themselves should his or her partner not want her to do that kinda stuff anymore.

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Posted 28 February 2013 - 03:58 PM

I think it's cheating...plain and simple. If it's an invitation of another woman to share with you...that's a different topic.


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