So what exactly did Jesus teach that you are against? Not your parents, or your teachers, or the snake shaking strichnine drinking pastors but Jesus.
Matthew 13:33 He told them still another parable: “The kingdom of heaven is like yeast that a woman took and mixed into a large amount of flour until it worked all through the dough.”
I think heaven is more likely to be akin to the number of million dollar bills I have in my pocket than to some yeast that has been worked all through the dough. Or if he is saying heaven is everywhere... I'd say go to Rwanda in the 90s and see if heaven is there.
Mark 7: 14-15 Again Jesus called the crowd to him and said, “Listen to me, everyone, and understand this. Nothing outside a man can make him ‘unclean’ by going into him. Rather, it is what comes out of a man that makes him ‘unclean.’ ” (NIV)
Apparently he didn't know of STDs.
Matthew 5:38-42 You have heard that it was said, 'An eye for an eye, and a tooth for a tooth.' But I tell you, do not resist an evil person. If someone strikes you on the right cheek, turn to him the other also. And if someone wants to sue you and take your tunic, let him have your cloak as well. If someone forces you to go one mile, go with him two miles. Give to the one who asks you, and do not turn away from the one who wants to borrow from you.
This is the big one. Are you going to stand idly by and turn the other cheek if your family or life is in danger? I say resist the evil person and eliminate them if possible. Also I'm not about to loan my money to just anyone at any time.