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Darth Biscuit

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Wow ... you people have high, high standards, especially for women.

I don't... I will admit to high e-standards, but that's different.

Normal people are fine, and I don't mind a little extra, but seriously if you have back boobs, you should not have on a string bikini. If you are that overweight, find a more modest swim suit to wear...

This goes for dudes too... if you have overhanging rolls of fat, keep your shirt on... no one wants to see it. Certainly no one wants to see it in a speedo.

I guess some people just don't care what others think, that's fine and their business, but I can have an opinion on it if I see it.

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I don't know.. if she hasn't figured it out by now, I doubt someone telling her is going to have a great response.

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I'm gonna guess she's happy with who she is and doesn't give a poo what anyone else thinks....and I'm ok with that

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I'm gonna guess she's happy with who she is and doesn't give a poo what anyone else thinks....and I'm ok with that

There you go.

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Wow ... you people have high, high standards, especially for women.

"some" of you people.

I think you are misunderstanding me.

I am all for overweight people wanting to go the pool, be active, wear bathing suits, WHATEVER. I have no issue with that.

But its a little bit different when you are an elephant trying to fit into the mouse's bathing suit. If people would just embrace their size and wear things that complement them rather than squeeze more fat out of areas I wasn't aware existed, then yeah its gross.

Find something that compliments your body type, not something you want to wear because your gfs with different body types are wearing it too.

Same with spandex. Good for you workin out and bein active , you get it girl, burn those calories. But don't do it while you are trying to squeeze into spandex that's 3 sizes too small. FIRST you work out, THEN you show off the results.

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I think you are misunderstanding me.

I am all for overweight people wanting to go the pool, be active, wear bathing suits, WHATEVER. I have no issue with that.

But its a little bit different when you are an elephant trying to fit into the mouse's bathing suit. If people would just embrace their size and wear things that complement them rather than squeeze more fat out of areas I wasn't aware existed, then yeah its gross.

Find something that compliments your body type, not something you want to wear because your gfs with different body types are wearing it too.

Same with spandex. Good for you workin out and bein active , you get it girl, burn those calories. But don't do it while you are trying to squeeze into spandex that's 3 sizes too small. FIRST you work out, THEN you show off the results.

The girl whose photo you posted is far from an "elephant."

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again Boo...maybe she doesn't give a poo what you think?

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And I doubt many of you (especially women) know what it's like to try to find larger clothing that doesn't look like grandma's moo-moo or a clown outfit. Who the hell decided us big girls want to wear gaudy multi-colored floral prints, and that we look good in them ... trust me, we don't.

Ever tried to find a bathing suit to fit over a round figure that doesn't look like crap?

And, as for that spandex ... if I'm working out in the gym, I'm not there to impress, I'm there to work out. I don't give a flip if I'm "grossing you out." Again, ever try to find something comfortable to work out in when you're overweight. Trust me, it ain't easy.

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again Boo...maybe she doesn't give a poo what you think?

Maybe not... and she has every right not too... but I also (and boo) have the right to my opinion of it. Don't I?

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The girl whose photo you posted is far from an "elephant."

The girl I posted was simply an example I found on google image search. If you would like me to find a more overweight one to support my story, I would be more than happy to.

This is nothing personal towards anyone, I am just simply trying to explain that its not that I have "standards" for girls in bikinis, I know I am not the most attractive person ever either, its just that she could better compliment herself and her overall body type if she chose something better and more slimming instead of something she's barely able to squeeze into (bewbs and all)

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Maybe not... and she has every right not too... but I also (and boo) have the right to my opinion of it. Don't I?

Yes, you do ... and you have every right not to look or to move somewhere, or to even tell her what you think.

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The girl I posted was simply an example I found on google image search. If you would like me to find a more overweight one to support my story, I would be more than happy to.

This is nothing personal towards anyone, I am just simply trying to explain that its not that I have "standards" for girls in bikinis, I know I am not the most attractive person ever either, its just that she could better compliment herself and her overall body type if she chose something better and more slimming instead of something she's barely able to squeeze into (bewbs and all)

I happen to think that girl looked fine, thus my "high, high standards" comment.

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