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#11 The Saltman

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Posted 24 September 2012 - 11:59 AM

Now of you're not ready to get married you better figure that out quick. Trust me if you're not 100% sure you want to get married don't. It's better then getting married and then getting a divorce. Divorce sucks long cocks.

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Posted 24 September 2012 - 12:00 PM

You have a fiance' and put yourself into a position of compromising her trust and blaming it on booze?

Until you feel you can be truthful with a bunch of random people on a forum on the internet...I wish I could speak directly to your fiance' to tell her to leave.

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Posted 24 September 2012 - 12:08 PM

end it....you screwed up big time for whatever reason....booze...uncertainty etc....if you can't commit to her during engagement, you surely won't be able to commit to her for life!

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Posted 24 September 2012 - 12:08 PM

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Posted 24 September 2012 - 12:09 PM

You have a fiance' and put yourself into a position of compromising her trust and blaming it on booze?

Until you feel you can be truthful with a bunch of random people on a forum on the internet...I wish I could speak directly to your fiance' to tell her to leave.


I don't know what you read, but I'm pretty sure that's not what he did. He admitted to the situation and said he was drunk... not really blaming it on booze imo.

#16 Mrs Pantherfan

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Posted 24 September 2012 - 12:09 PM

one...if it was just the tip..it doesn't really count :)

two...why the hell did the girl tell your fiance?

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Posted 24 September 2012 - 12:17 PM

I cheated on my wife when we were back in college. We were just casually dating at the time. I broke up with her within hours. We got back together a little down the road. There's no advice here.

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Posted 24 September 2012 - 12:19 PM

Don't know why, I was drunk so was the girl (a mutual friend). She told my fiancé Saturday night.

Now I'm not trying to make anyone feel sorry for me but I feel like the biggest POS ever. She has been practically perfect, she deserves someone so much better than me.

She wants to work it out but I don't. Every time we talk I feel so stupid, a complete asshole. I can't forgive myself and truly do not want to stay together. I forsee a lifetime of guilt, resentment, an distrust. I don't know how to articulate it without being even more of an asshole, like there's really any way to not be one.

So huddle if you've cheated or been cheated on what should I do?



First go get STD test..............go from there

#19 cookinbrak

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Posted 24 September 2012 - 12:51 PM

I don't know what you read, but I'm pretty sure that's not what he did. He admitted to the situation and said he was drunk... not really blaming it on booze imo.

His fiance' knows that he wasn't going to tell. The other girl told her. He never admitted anything, he got caught.

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Posted 24 September 2012 - 12:56 PM

Seems pretty simple to me. Your fiance isn't the right woman for you. If she was, there's no way you would have even considered putting yourself in that position, much less gone through with it. I've been married twice, and there's an amazing difference between being with the right person and just being with someone who can be your spouse. When you're with the right person, you just don't seem to get stupid nearly as often, if at all. There's just something about being completely satisfied and happy that acts as a shield against behavior that can really damage your relationship.

Sucks to be you, but at least this didn't happen after a few years of marriage and a kid or two.


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