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#1 PhillyB


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Posted 24 December 2012 - 04:30 PM

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After working as a dental assistant for ten years, Melissa Nelson was fired for being too "irresistible" and a "threat" to her employer's marriage.

"I think it is completely wrong," Nelson said. "I think it is sending a message that men can do whatever they want in the work force."

On Friday, the all-male Iowa State Supreme Court ruled that James Knight, Nelson's boss, was within his legal rights when he fired her, affirming the decision of a lower court.

"We do think the Iowa Supreme Court got it completely right," said Stuart Cochrane, an attorney for James Knight. "Our position has always been Mrs. Nelson was never terminated because of her gender, she was terminated because of concerns her behavior was not appropriate in the workplace. She's an attractive lady. Dr. Knight found her behavior and dress to be inappropriate."
For Nelson, a 32-year-old married mother of two, the news of her firing and the rationale behind it came as a shock.

"I was very surprised after working so many years side by side I didn't have any idea that that would have crossed his mind," she said.

The two never had a sexual relationship or sought one, according to court documents, however in the final year and a half of Nelson's employment, Knight began to make comments about her clothing being too tight or distracting.

"Dr. Knight acknowledges he once told Nelson that if she saw his pants bulging, she would know her clothing was too revealing," the justices wrote.

Six months before Nelson was fired, she and her boss began exchanging text messages about work and personal matters, such as updates about each of their children's activities, the justices wrote.
The messages were mostly mundane, but Nelson recalled one text she received from her boss asking "how often she experienced an orgasm."

Nelson did not respond to the text and never indicated that she was uncomfortable with Knight's question, according to court documents.

Soon after, Knight's wife, Jeanne, who also works at the practice, found out about the text messaging and ordered her husband to fire Nelson.

The couple consulted with a senior pastor at their church and he agreed that Nelson should be terminated in order to protect their marriage, Cochrane said.

On Jan. 4, 2010, Nelson was summoned to a meeting with Knight while a pastor was present. Knight then read from a prepared statement telling Nelson she was fired.

"Dr. Knight felt like for the best interest of his marriage and the best interest of hers to end their employment relationship," Cochrane said.

Knight acknowledged in court documents that Nelson was good at her job and she, in turn, said she was generally treated with respect.

"I'm devastated. I really am," Nelson said.

When Nelson's husband tried to reason with Knight, the dentist told him he "feared he would have an affair with her down the road if he did not fire her."

Paige Fiedler, Nelson's attorney, said in a statement to ABC News affiliate KCRG that she was "appalled" by the ruling.

"We are appalled by the Court's ruling and its failure to understand the nature of gender bias.," she wrote.

"Although people act for a variety of reasons, it is very common for women to be targeted for discrimination because of their sexual attractiveness or supposed lack of sexual attractiveness. That is discrimination based on sex," Fiedler wrote. "Nearly every woman in Iowa understands this because we have experienced it for ourselves."

this is pretty fuging pathetic... "hey uh, sorry bout that sexual harassment and all, i know it's wrong so i'm gonna fire you, by the way here's the pastor of my christian church endorsing the whole thing sitting right here next to me"

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Posted 24 December 2012 - 04:37 PM

yeah i read this the other day. now the dentist may truly be honest about how she is a hurdle for him but to fire her is pretty obscene. not to mention it sounds like he threw out a few overtures first.

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Posted 24 December 2012 - 04:46 PM

I am sure his marriage will be just "peachy" now

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Posted 24 December 2012 - 04:57 PM

this may explain why i have lost so many jobs "mysteriously".

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Posted 24 December 2012 - 05:19 PM

I like the pastor giving that recommendation. "Covet not thy neighbors wife. Or just make that bitch move away"

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Posted 24 December 2012 - 05:32 PM

I really need to see pics of this chick in tight, revealing clothing to make a fair judgement.

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Posted 24 December 2012 - 05:37 PM

Pfff, its a dentist office. I'm sure he had enough gas to knock her out for a hour or so..

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Posted 24 December 2012 - 05:37 PM

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Posted 24 December 2012 - 06:16 PM

Pics or STFU

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Posted 24 December 2012 - 06:19 PM

uhm, what the hell was she wearing that was inappropriate and why didn't he ask her to wear something else first?

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Posted 24 December 2012 - 06:33 PM

i think the thing that bothers me the most about this is that the pastor was the one who endorsed this as god's way



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Posted 24 December 2012 - 07:00 PM

i think the thing that bothers me the most about this is that the pastor was the one who endorsed this as god's way

yeah it's bothersome but it's not at all surprising that a pastor endorses misogyny

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Posted 24 December 2012 - 07:53 PM

Get used to it. With "right to work" laws, firing people for stupid reasons or no reason at all is getting easier and easier to do.Posted Image

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Posted 24 December 2012 - 08:30 PM

She's hot enough for me. I'd find out where she is working next and switch dentists.

Any reasonable dentist would want employees to attract clients. My guess is the real story is fat wives were complaining about their horny husbands visiting the dentist too often.

Same principle applies to wimmins going topless on a beach. What guy in his right is going to complain to the cops about that? Nobody other than an ugly fat wife.

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Posted 25 December 2012 - 11:50 AM

Sounds like an episode of King of the Hill when Hank fired an assistant for the same reason.

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