To answer your question unlike you do for mine. If you had read my post earlier. I have a gay Nephew and I love him a lot. But he knows I don't accept his life style and he even knows it is wrong. But he chooses to be gay. Again I have nothing against people and how they live. That's their choice. I'm not bashing them. I'm just saying it is wrong and it is not right. I don't want to see gay people announce it every where just to get notice or attention. So your gay. Big deal and that is your choice. But it is my choice to let them know that it ain't right in the eyes of God. I'm not judging them. It is God and it says it in the Bible. Plain and simple.
Here's the thing, you only think he chose to be Gay because that's all you ever been taught in life, and the problem is you are wrong. I too used to think like you do but for me those days are long gone because for various reasons and ways I have learned that there is no choice in the matter.
If you truly love your nephew, then go to him and tell him that you accept and love him for who he is and no longer have a issue with him being Gay, because as long as you hold back from that you hold back from accepting him for who he is and in turn do not truly love him.
you need to ask yourself this, what matters more to you, the bigoted point of view you've been told to have or the love and respect of your nephew, you cant have it both ways.
do yourself a favor and your Nephew too and read this: http://www.danoah.co...-youre-gay.html
I think that will say everything far better then I can.