My best friend
Eventually he couldn't handle all the hate & nobody in his family loving him & he put TWO .44 magnum revolvers to his head, & pretty much decapitated himself.
I am so sorry to hear what your friend went through and then of his loss.
This thread has gone to lower places than I knew existed here.
One more thought....for all of you fearing a gay man in the locker room...seeing his teammates naked, etc.......It seems like his teammates at Missouri had no problem with it. My guess is professional athletes will have no problems at well.