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#1 Delhommey

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Posted 22 February 2009 - 12:47 AM

One of the most valuable pieces of advice my mother ever gave me was if you believe in divorce, don't get married. Otherwise divorce is bound to happen. So why is it so few people follow this advice?

Having dated and befriended many many people, I've found one of the most psychological damaging acts in life is parents seperating. So why is it that such a toxic event is barely frowned on anymore?

The divorce rate in America is one of the highest in the world and in the Southeast it's the highest in America. Why no outrage?

#2 Squirrel

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Posted 22 February 2009 - 12:49 AM

Because it is to easy to get one.

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Posted 22 February 2009 - 04:31 AM

you sure its the highest in the southeast?

LA county's was 71% for 2007 and they said it went up in 08

#4 Matt Foley

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Posted 22 February 2009 - 06:29 AM

Delhommey are you turning into a conservative?

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Posted 22 February 2009 - 08:26 AM

I subscribe to the behead your wife to regain your honor method.

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Posted 22 February 2009 - 08:47 AM

I went through one and there were no kids involved...Now that I have three, and a hellava better wife, I wouldn't even consider it.

I think it matters when you marry. I believe all men should be 30 or older before they marry and women in their mid-twenties. Our maturation process takes longer.

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Posted 22 February 2009 - 09:34 AM

what happens if someone accidentally gets pregnant?

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Posted 22 February 2009 - 09:38 AM

Is it the 19th. century? What does a child have to do with marriage?

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Posted 22 February 2009 - 10:06 AM

just curious delhommey are/were you married?

#10 Matt Foley

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Posted 22 February 2009 - 10:22 AM

Do you believe in gay divorce?

#11 Delhommey

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Posted 22 February 2009 - 11:30 AM

just curious delhommey are/were you married?


Newp. Not against the idea but I'm picky and also have never felt I should get married just so I can be married. If I have to wait till 50 to find the right one. I know I made the right decision waiting till my 30's as I am a much better judge of character than I was 5 years ago.

As I refuse to believe in divorce I am very choosy who I marry.

#12 Delhommey

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Posted 22 February 2009 - 11:32 AM

Delhommey are you turning into a conservative?


No. That would mean I publically denounce what I privately practice.

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Posted 22 February 2009 - 12:05 PM

Is it the 19th. century? What does a child have to do with marriage?


who the fug cares about divorce when children aren't involved?

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Posted 22 February 2009 - 12:28 PM

Divorce sucks, but sometimes its a necessary evil. Its easy to say don't get married, but the fact is that people change, and sometimes for the worse.

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Posted 22 February 2009 - 12:28 PM

Newp. Not against the idea but I'm picky and also have never felt I should get married just so I can be married. If I have to wait till 50 to find the right one. I know I made the right decision waiting till my 30's as I am a much better judge of character than I was 5 years ago.

As I refuse to believe in divorce I am very choosy who I marry.




That is an undeniable truth...That's why I also believe people should wait until they are 30+ to be married.


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