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#81 chef17

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Posted 04 July 2012 - 04:58 PM

Everyone knows when they get married what the rules of possession are regarding shared property. If you don't want to go through a divorce then don't get married. No one put a gun to his head or anyone else's and told them they had to get married. Guys do it by the millions of their own free will. Then piss and moan when they get a divorce and have to pay what they knew they would all along.
I feel for everyone who has to go through a divorce as it sucks all the way around. But I have no sympathy for anyone who has to pay child support no matter how much. You brought them into the world now you need to pay to have them raised particularly if you aren't even going to be around to do the job except on alternate weekends. No one made you have kids and if you couldn't anticipate the future, whose fault is that??

Again if you have suffered through a divorce I can sympathize. But not wanting to take care of your children even if that means that your ex-wife uses that money to blow some of that money on herself, I don't see at all. You picked her as the mother of your children and you had the kids, now you have to deal with the consequences.


That is horrible logic. Of course everyone should take care of their kids but it's not like they predict the future and know who gets custody if a divorce happens. To say "well the knew they would have to pay if a divorce happens" isn't even close to true.

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Posted 04 July 2012 - 07:25 PM

That is horrible logic. Of course everyone should take care of their kids but it's not like they predict the future and know who gets custody if a divorce happens. To say "well the knew they would have to pay if a divorce happens" isn't even close to true.


No, that is adult logic which seems to be in short supply by some people here. When you get someone pregnant you are making a lifetime commitment to that child. When you marry most people say the words for better or worse until death do we part. Sure we know that 2 out of 3 marriages end in divorce but if you aren't thinking about the future you have no business having kids or getting married. If you don't think long and hard about the consequences of what you are doing before you get married then you deserve what you get.

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Posted 05 July 2012 - 02:34 AM

No, that is adult logic which seems to be in short supply by some people here. When you get someone pregnant you are making a lifetime commitment to that child. When you marry most people say the words for better or worse until death do we part. Sure we know that 2 out of 3 marriages end in divorce but if you aren't thinking about the future you have no business having kids or getting married. If you don't think long and hard about the consequences of what you are doing before you get married then you deserve what you get.


So every guy who has a child just should assume the other person will get custody in a divorce no matter the situation? Making a lifetime commitment to a child has nothing to do with knowing they would be the one paying child support in a divorce which is your claim based on

No one put a gun to his head or anyone else's and told them they had to get married. Guys do it by the millions of their own free will. Then piss and moan when they get a divorce and have to pay what they knew they would all along.


Please explain how guys know what will happen and who will get custody in the future if a divorce happens. How does a guy in a better financial situation than his wife who feels he deserves custody know all along that he would end up paying child support? He doesn't. So to say guys piss and moans when they knew all along what they would pay is retarded logic.

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Posted 05 July 2012 - 08:42 AM

So every guy who has a child just should assume the other person will get custody in a divorce no matter the situation? Making a lifetime commitment to a child has nothing to do with knowing they would be the one paying child support in a divorce which is your claim based on


Please explain how guys know what will happen and who will get custody in the future if a divorce happens. How does a guy in a better financial situation than his wife who feels he deserves custody know all along that he would end up paying child support? He doesn't. So to say guys piss and moans when they knew all along what they would pay is retarded logic.


You miss the point completely, It isn't about knowing what is going to happen in 25 years or how much money you are going to make or even who will get custody. It is about knowing that the child is your responsibility and that whatever comes about due to staying married or getting a divorce should be paid without bitching given they are your child. What you know is that the commitment is to your children regardless of how the monies get divided.

And for most people unless a man can prove their spouse is totally incompetent, abusive or she abandons the child, a man won't be getting full custody. The courts usually favor a woman over a man believing the mother/child bond is sacred. So if there is going to be shared custody and that is what happens so often that you can assume it will always be the case, then if the husband make more than the wife, he will paying the lions share of child support.

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Posted 05 July 2012 - 09:00 AM

I can't get past Payton's smug facial expressions to give two craps about him. Fug the Saints*, fug Saints* fans, and fug Sean Pay"for injury"ton.

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Posted 05 July 2012 - 09:27 AM

I can't get past Payton's smug facial expressions to give two craps about him. Fug the Saints**, fug Saints** fans, and fug Sean Pay"for injury"ton.


I agree he is a total condescending douchebag, but I surely don't wish bad things for his family nor will I take pleasure in his divorce. Now I am fine with his suspension and glad it will hurt the Saints* this year.