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[Proudiddy]

Maybe you're just not hot anymore Proudiddy j/k

I still get hit on..but it's not all "hey girl, is that a keg in your pants" type lines...it's usually a very nice compliment..maybe you just need to pay attention more

I have seriously questioned if I have a disillusioned view of myself and if I have become a bridge troll, lol. J/k...

At worst, I may have lost a point or two on the scale, at best, I'm right where I used to be relative to age.

Who knows, but it's just kind of weighed on me.

[The Saltman]

wait a minute.......who says hey girl, is that a keg in your pants? Thats about the worst line I have ever heard.

[TruCatzFan]

I was out in Raleigh with my wife this past weekend and ran into a girl I knew pre her who told my wife how her friends talk about how lucky she is to be married to me....funny, great, errything

Quite flattering.

I stood there after she left looked at my wife and said "See I told you you were lucky....I don't make this crap up"

I got hit.

POST OF THE YEAR!

[TruCatzFan]

Proud, you will likely get hit on hard core in the next 24-36 hrs. Not to worry

[Proudiddy]

I was out in Raleigh with my wife this past weekend and ran into a girl I knew pre her who told my wife how her friends talk about how lucky she is to be married to me....funny, great, errything

Quite flattering.

I stood there after she left looked at my wife and said "See I told you you were lucky....I don't make this crap up"

I got hit.

That's awesome.

And quite ballsy of the former acquaintance, lol.

[The Saltman]

[Mrs Pantherfan]

wait a minute.......who says hey girl, is that a keg in your pants? Thats about the worst line I have ever heard.

LOL I was being sarcastic...

I was just meaning that it's not all in your face obvious "let's fug"

[catfang]

In my experience, its what you are looking for and your presence that equals the amount of attention you get. In my first marriage, I never looked at other women or flirted with them, and never received any flirting for the most part. I always wondered about guys who said that the wedding ring brought them more attention than they'd ever had.

Now that I'm older and wiser, I flirt all the time, and I get flirted with right back, but like MPF said, its not "hey lets go bang" it can just be a compliment to them, or if they turn around and check me out, cool "hmm, maybe I still got it". Then I go home and slay dat poo.

[Panthro]

That's awesome.

And quite ballsy of the former acquaintance, lol.

I was pretty good friends with her and a couple other girls. I felt bad for her boyfriend who was drunk standing there while she was telling us this lol

They had all met my wife (gf at the time) but I havent seen them since I got married.

[Proudiddy]

LOL Panthro. #winning

[Mrs Pantherfan]

CatFang..I'm gonna buy you this for Xmas

[catfang]

LOL I was being sarcastic...

I was just meaning that it's not all in your face obvious "let's fug"

Hey, lets go bang.





what?

[LifeisaGarden]

I'm 34, married for 12 yrs and together for 16yrs & we have an 11yr old daughter. I cant remember how long it's been since I've purposely flirted. If I have flirted, it was an accidental flirt. Usually when I'm uptown shopping, running errands or whatnot, I'm thinking about what I need to do. If I see a hot guy I think 'Oh he's hot' and then go on my way. I just don't think about it.

[Proudiddy]

In my experience, its what you are looking for and your presence that equals the amount of attention you get. In my first marriage, I never looked at other women or flirted with them, and never received any flirting for the most part. I always wondered about guys who said that the wedding ring brought them more attention than they'd ever had.

Now that I'm older and wiser, I flirt all the time, and I get flirted with right back, but like MPF said, its not "hey lets go bang" it can just be a compliment to them, or if they turn around and check me out, cool "hmm, maybe I still got it". Then I go home and slay dat poo.

I definitely think this is a huge part of it. I do think I had more of a presence back when I was hit on a lot, but I've been married now for going on 8 years and I've been with my wife for 10... But, now we have 3 children and all, so I think I've naturally mellowed out. When I go out, I'm typically in and out and not making myself very noticeable I guess.

I used to give friends advice about grabbing women's attention and would tell them it's about your presence and/or swagger. Either that, or you should have money falling out of your pockets, lol. Maybe it truly is because I've closed off myself to the point that I wouldn't notice it anyway... For example, I've actually caught myself avoiding eye contact in some situations where I used to make it a point to...

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[The Saltman]

thanks for thinking I was hot that day LifeisaGarden