I have no issue with anyone voting their conscience. I've had some of the same conversations. (A friend of mine dates a Saudi girl who isn't a citizen and is terrified that Trump will get her deported if he gets another 4 years, even if I personally think the courts would stop it.)
I used to be vote blue no matter who before harbingers made me hate myself because his dumb posting forced me to look at myself in the mirror. I'm at least open to seeing what Biden says in the debates. That's all I can promise my friends. That being said, none of them have insinuated I'm a trumper if I vote 3rd party like the dipshits on this forum do, and that's the only thing I really have a problem with.