I knew I could count on this place for compassionate and thoughtful help
she is spending the holidays with her family before leaving ( mom and step dad) - shes too young for me and out of my league anyway, alas
Darn, I meant to hit quote instead of Pi!
They are only out of your league if you believe they are out of your league!
In my 54 years, I have been around a lot of different women. Several I thought I was out of their league! But what I learned was that the women I did date, may not have stimulated me mentally, but very physically!
So, you don't raise your finger when you drink tea, Im sure there are other ways you can satisfy her!
Ask her out. All she can say is "NO". AND there maybe a reason she has crossed your door step. She may have wanted you to ask her out and since you didn't, she figured she move and move on!