Posted 07 June 2012 - 08:55 AM
Those who cheat.
Those who don't.
It isn't complicated.
* there is also a sub group of those who don't cheat....and they are the ones who don't cheat and are naive and foolish enough to believe a cheater wouldn't do it again.
Posted 07 June 2012 - 10:10 AM
Posted 07 June 2012 - 10:16 AM
You sir had a real doozie on your hands.
I hope that you wore a rubber on those 5 days where things were back to normal.
Posted 07 June 2012 - 10:26 AM
Posted 07 June 2012 - 01:35 PM
My advice is to suck it up and walk away. Emotional pain will heal eventually. Yeah, that might sound harsh but trust broken is very hard to get back 100% unless you are a total sucker. Yeah, sorry again for the harsh words but if she will cheat and "get away with it" (by your forgiveness) it will seem like she got away with it and it will be a matter of time before she tries it again.
They say if your spouse cheats on you with a stranger, then it most likely was a random event. If they cheat on you with someone they knew, it was premeditated and planned out. Only a matter of time before it happens again.
IMHO, your best option is to get revenge on her by living a good life and surround yourself with those who love you.