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#1 carpantherfan84

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Posted 28 June 2013 - 07:27 PM

So my son was at a Mcdonalds with his mother my wife.  In the midst of the playing my wife noticed my son trying to retrieve his toy from a slightly older and taller boy.  My son snatched the toy back telling the kid no.  The boy proceeded to SPIT on my child!. Along with another child about 2 years old.  My son does not spit on other kids and proceeded to kindof sit back and not retaliate. He backed up into a corner. My wife of course yells out to tell the kids to stop.  The parents of the older boy said nothing. The mother of the younger girl softly and unenthusiastically told her to stop.  My wife called him over and per my instructions when my son is being bullied she told him that if it happens again, he is to punch the kids in the mouth.  My son of course has never and i'm sure has no intention of ever striking another human being. (other than me, the kid hits a ton)

 

So my question is what parent on here would not instantly and deliberately punish a child for spitting.  I couldn't believe that behaviour would go unpunished. I bet they wouldn't like it if my son had actually gave the little 7 year old a busted lip.  Even the little 2 year old girl. My son is 5. I dont like bullies. period.



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Posted 28 June 2013 - 07:42 PM

Punch a kid in the mouth. Sounds like a couple parents need some advice

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Posted 28 June 2013 - 07:46 PM

Oh it's just beginning. You have no idea the depths of the idiot parent pools.

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Posted 28 June 2013 - 07:54 PM

lol



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Posted 28 June 2013 - 08:10 PM

Teach him not to be a pussy like his old man. Lol

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Posted 28 June 2013 - 08:32 PM

Am I the only one that thinks all the parents in this story suck?



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Posted 28 June 2013 - 08:38 PM

5 he needs mom and dad 24/7.

 

he isn't a video game.



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Posted 28 June 2013 - 08:39 PM

kids pretty much inherit bad or good behavior from their parents

#9 carpantherfan84

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Posted 28 June 2013 - 08:50 PM

lol at all the comments. My son is a complete pacifist. Absolutely refuses to even consider violence in any situation. That is likely why he is CONSTANTLY BULLIED!.  So fug you all. I could give a poo less if you feel that I should teach my son nonviolence.  Im just tired of other kids being such little devils.  But he has to learn to stick up for hisself. While he is young and unable to hurt or really be hurt by any kids his age, he should learn the idea of standing up for hisself. If you dont agree with that than you truly are full of poo.



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Posted 28 June 2013 - 08:58 PM

Furthermore, my wife and I dont believe in spankings. There is no violence in our home. He doesn't watch adult television so he really has no concept of violence and at 5 is likely completely terrified of the idea of being hit. He is basically outmatched on the playground when bullied.  Combine that with a kind heart and a beautiful soul. If it was your kid what would you tell them.

 

"dont worry little johnny, the spit cant hurt you"

 

"run and tell their parents, cause they are acting naughty"

 

w/e,




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