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Jakob

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you don't have a concept of what 'rest of my life' is yet.  Most people don't figure this out until their 30s, if at all.  hence the whole, 'we've grown apart' thing that pops up in middle aged folks so much.  If you can talk with her, and she makes you laugh, then you're a lot further along towards having long term success than most people.  If she has big titties, too, buy buy buy!

Ah, I know things will change by the time I'm 30. Just in this moment in time I could see myself being 75 and still being with her. Shes always made me laugh, I always make her laugh. Her personality is the best..

 

Her body is a huge bonus... not that I'd base a relationship on looks.

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She's about to be 21 and I'm about to be 20..

Everything will go to poo when she turns 21 and you're stuck being 20. Sorry bruh but you gotta get your heart ripped out and move on.

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No rel;ationship advice but if you need marriage advice, I'm your guy.

 

I've been married 5 times so I am kind of like an expert on thart subject.....

 

 

FWIW, follow your heart.

 

Right there with ya... on number 5 right now and we're discussing separating/divorce for the holidays. Apparently her alcohol consumption is more important than our marriage and I'm tired of bitching about her drinking.

 

But you guys are young. Please take your time and enjoy what you have.

 

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read my lips:

 

waaaaaait

untiiiiilllll

yoouuuuuu

aaaarrre

thiiiiiirty

 

before making any actual decisions

 

you will be a completely different person then than you are now and whatever you find you have in common with this girl now that attracts you may simply not be there at a later place and time. you will change more rapidly through your twenties than at any time in your adulthood, in ideology, interests, goals, education, etc. 

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Follow your heart is good advice.

But Philly is right, 20 is awfully young to make life decisions like this. I say date her, be happy, see where it goes but don't make any life commitments yet... Not yet.

She might be "the one" and you should try and find out if she is. Don't let ANYBODY tell you you HAVE to do anything though right now.

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read my lips:

 

waaaaaait

untiiiiilllll

yoouuuuuu

aaaarrre

thiiiiiirty

 

before making any actual decisions

 

you will be a completely different person then than you are now and whatever you find you have in common with this girl now that attracts you may simply not be there at a later place and time. you will change more rapidly through your twenties than at any time in your adulthood, in ideology, interests, goals, education, etc. 

 

This post is the absolute truth, and I wish I had heard it 15-20 years ago (and that I had the capability of appreciating it at that time).

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read my lips:

 

waaaaaait

untiiiiilllll

yoouuuuuu

aaaarrre

thiiiiiirty

 

before making any actual decisions

 

you will be a completely different person then than you are now and whatever you find you have in common with this girl now that attracts you may simply not be there at a later place and time. you will change more rapidly through your twenties than at any time in your adulthood, in ideology, interests, goals, education, etc. 

 

We wouldn't think of getting married until we are in our late 20's School and work before marriage.

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Holy sh*t brother. I would read this but my attention span right now is down through the underside of the roof but good uck if this is a bad thing.

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