I'm sick of people like this

[LifeisaGarden]

People who whine & complain to you about how horrible their lives are, how they can never get ahead and how others are always holding them down or out to get them.

And then you try to give suggestions on how they could improve things and they give you every excuse in the book for why they cant do it.

I think for my new years resolution I'm going to start minding my own effin buisness & who ever wants to vent to me about their screwed up life can go to hell.

[GritsRgreat]

but but the lottery will make me rich....

[Hawk]

sometimes people just need to vent...I know I do and I think I'm pretty much a very positive person!

[Dpantherman]

My lazy ass cousin, refuses to get a job. She dropped out of high school, wouldn't listen to anything anyone tried to tell her, got pregnant, went nuts (literally, shes on meds now) and is now pregnant with #2, still begging, w/ no job.

More than likely she will show up at Christmas (she only calls or comes around when she needs something), looking for gifts. Who thinks I'm getting her something??? (i'll prob have something for the baby, SHE won't get poo from me.)

Merry Christmas.

[Jangler]

the lottery may make you rich, but it won't change who you are.

[mmmbeans]

My lazy ass cousin, refuses to get a job. She dropped out of high school, wouldn't listen to anything anyone tried to tell her, got pregnant, went nuts (literally, shes on meds now) and is now pregnant with #2, still begging, w/ no job.

More than likely she will show up at Christmas (she only calls or comes around when she needs something), looking for gifts. Who thinks I'm getting her something??? (i'll prob have something for the baby, SHE won't get poo from me.)

Merry Christmas.

you should have hawk hire her to do some yard work.

[GritsRgreat]

buy her a handful of scratch offs

[bleys]

funny you made a thread about this.. a good friend of mine has been bitching about every-f**king-thing recently... she gets these grand ideas for a new job, takes a week to prepare (one required physical tests), and then wonders why she fails.. which of course requires a month of bitching about how she's a failure..

another is her choice of men.. she holds Mother Theresa's standards of sex, but then sleeps with the guy, barely knowing him and gets pissed the hell off when the guy gets freaked out because she dumps those expectations on a guy she barely knows..

now she's going to interview for a marketing job out in Denver.. which is cool. But the more info she started leaking, it's now over a guy who "we both used to like each other, but never told each other because we were always in a relationship with someone else"..

funny thing is she's taking herself with her.. So in 6 months we'll see how this situation implodes..

gah.. I always thought she was more normal, but typing this up, I'm realizing she's crazy as poo.. actually, I take that back.. she's WAS calm, cool, and collected.. recently, she's gone off the deep end..

the bitching has crossed the line though..

[Jangler]

got her number?

[Dpantherman]

you should have hawk hire her to do some yard work.

too lazy

[GritsRgreat]

sounds like she needs a very large D

[bleys]

got her number?

yeah, it's 919-555-6911

[Dpantherman]

shes never been w/ a brotha then

[LifeisaGarden]

I'm generally not the type that gives suggestions unless I'm asked for my opinion. I usually can take these things and let it not bother me too bad.

But this time they crossed the line when not only did they give me every excuse in the book but they actually attacked me and told me and I quote "not everyone's life is as perfect as yours is" and "you are always downgrading me". Then they tried to turn it around and make it seem like I was the one with all the drama. I was like whut the ***!

My life is far from perfect, just because I choose to have a positive outlook on things instead of focusing on the negatives doesn't make it or me perfect. It just makes my life less miserable to deal with. It's not downgrading when you're asked to be honest!

So fug them, if they enjoy being miserable then so be it.

Do you think its because they are jealous of your happiness?