Serious Sex Question

[Kurb]

so jerking it by yourself not lame, jerking it with your spouse is lame.

I disagree.

When exactly did I say that ?

Don't put words in my mouth sticks ;)

[bleys]

I tolerate it. I would never say I loved it; by which I mean I would do it with no alterior motives. I do it because it's a prelude to something much better. Personally, I just find it boring. The whole time I'm doing it, I'm thinking, "Man, how much longer is this going to take?"

And reciprocation isn't much incentive for me, because I'm one of those odd cases where I don't really get off to that (Don't ask me why, I just think I'm incapable of getting off if she's not getting off). I'm a dyed in the wool copulation man.

she's most likely thinking the same thing lol, it doesn't happen the 1st 5 minutes for me.. which is why there are often times I'm good with just getting her off.

[Kettle]

I tolerate it. I would never say I loved it; by which I mean I would do it with no alterior motives. I do it because it's a prelude to something much better. Personally, I just find it boring. The whole time I'm doing it, I'm thinking, "Man, how much longer is this going to take?"

And reciprocation isn't much incentive for me, because I'm one of those odd cases where I don't really get off to that (Don't ask me why, I just think I'm incapable of getting off if she's not getting off). I'm a dyed in the wool copulation man.

i don't get off from oral either. usually. i can count on one hand the number of times i have. i'd still never turn it down though, and always try to get some. its a great feeling IMO.

[Zcustom]

if you don't get off from oral she isn't a swallower.

and ladies, do your country a service and swallow, if all women swallowed there'd be less war, genocide etc...

[Kettle]

you have to get off for them to swallow though so that doesn't make sense Z. swallowing is great though. i've had that more times than i've actually gotten off from oral. quick dismount.

[Darth Biscuit]

i don't get off from oral either. usually. i can count on one hand the number of times i have. i'd still never turn it down though, and always try to get some. its a great feeling IMO.

I didn't use to, but that has changed a lot over the years. I think it depends on the effort/ability of the giver. In my case I think she figured out that if she did that I wouldn't bother her about sex as much.

[Cat]

When exactly did I say that ?

Don't put words in my mouth sticks ;)

well that's pretty much my point and you seemed to be disagreeing with it so just an assumption. Sorry if it was incorrect.

[boo7382]

Oh I get that, but at least you are interested most of the time... I doubt there's many women that could keep up with most men's sex drive.

I respectfully disagree sir.

if you don't get off from oral she isn't a swallower.

and ladies, do your country a service and swallow, if all women swallowed there'd be less war, genocide etc...

:lol:

I don't think I know any girls that don't.

[Kettle]

I didn't use to, but that has changed a lot over the years. I think it depends on the effort/ability of the giver. In my case I think she figured out that if she did that I wouldn't bother her about sex as much.

maybe. but i've had some that literally gave me a head rush, but didn't get me off. weird thing is that its my go to for porn selection.

[Zcustom]

you have to get off for them to swallow though so that doesn't make sense Z. swallowing is great though. i've had that more times than i've actually gotten off from oral. quick dismount.

tis easier to sprint for the finish line if there's a reward at the end

if you know your load is gonna have to be dealt with (ie cleaned up) it really puts a damper on the whole experience

I had a chick tell me she was gonna swallow once and then just let it shoot wherever, and boy was that a mess. wtf?

[Darth Biscuit]

I respectfully disagree sir.

:lol:

I don't think I know any girls that don't.

Hey, I said not many, not NONE... :D

maybe. but i've had some that literally gave me a head rush, but didn't get me off. weird thing is that its my go to for porn selection.

That is weird... I'm not the opposite of that, but that's not my preferred scene.

[Kurb]

Date a music major for awhile in college.

She played the clarinet and flute or something.

Oral has been downhill since that time. lol

[bleys]

tis easier to sprint for the finish line if there's a reward at the end

if you know your load is gonna have to be dealt with (ie cleaned up) it really puts a damper on the whole experience

I had a chick tell me she was gonna swallow once and then just let it shoot wherever, and boy was that a mess. wtf?

back in the day, one chick couldn't handle it and blew it back on me.. luckily I was wearing a shirt, less of a mess to clean up..

was kind of disappointment.. lol

[Kettle]

Date a music major for awhile in college.

She played the clarinet and flute or something.

Oral has been downhill since that time. lol

similar for me, but she was a triple athlete and Morehead scholar. no pun intended.