Serious Sex Question

[teeray]

I don't think posting a message board means you're sexually inexperienced. Maybe I'm eating a girl out right now AND making witty posts in this thread.

A logistical impossibility. Where is the laptop? On her belly? How would you type with her legs in the way? If the laptop was off to the side you couldn't see it and your grammar would be off. I'm not buying it. :D

[SmootsDaddy89]

Post 261 & 262 nailed with a former gf of mine. She was taught that sex was "dirty" from a young age and only "bad people going to hell" would engage. This was in the late 90's. She was a 20 year old virgin who was really up tight about sex. I slowly broke thru by not being a dick about it and taking things step by step. The only problem was she fell for me hard, broke her heart when i told her it was over. I still feel alittle bad about that.

Did you meet a 14 year old or something?

[Panthers_Lover]

Post 261 & 262 nailed with a former gf of mine. She was taught that sex was "dirty" from a young age and only "bad people going to hell" would engage. This was in the late 90's. She was a 20 year old virgin who was really up tight about sex. I slowly broke thru by not being a dick about it and taking things step by step. The only problem was she fell for me hard, broke her heart when i told her it was over. I still feel alittle bad about that.

It's not unusual for a girl/woman to fall in love with someone with whom they have such an experience. Probably, after she got over the broken heart, she was thankful for your patience and encouragement. Some other guy(s) is/are reaping the benefits, most likely.

[boo7382]

I think there might even be more girls who don't like getting it than there are guys who like to do it.

Usually the result of some severe poor body image or something. They're the same kind of girls who constantly make references to being fat in hopes of being complimented. Then after my frustration level builds up to a certain point, I just start saying, "Holy poo, you're fuging HUGE."

Also their lack of self esteem prevents them from letting themselves relax during sex so they can get off. Or at least that's what I tell myself so that I don't feel like a failure.

this is very very true. if you can't relax....its not gonna happen. with boy or without boy....its the damn truth.

Ive told this to a lot of girls. You build it up b.c you think its a big deal that you can't get off so your mind is swimming and you cant just relax and concentrate. If you just relax and take your mind off of what he is doing down there and put it more on how awesome it feels....it will come. maybe not right away, but it will. and it will be fugin great.

[GritsRgreat]

Did you meet a 14 year old or something?

Nope, she was 20.

[Panthers_Lover]

this is very very true. if you can't relax....its not gonna happen. with boy or without boy....its the damn truth.

Ive told this to a lot of girls. You build it up b.c you think its a big deal that you can't get off so your mind is swimming and you cant just relax and concentrate. If you just relax and take your mind off of what he is doing down there and put it more on how awesome it feels....it will come. maybe not right away, but it will. and it will be fugin great.

And then there's ....

:party::party:

[GritsRgreat]

It's not unusual for a girl/woman to fall in love with someone with whom they have such an experience. Probably, after she got over the broken heart, she was thankful for your patience and encouragement. Some other guy(s) is/are reaping the benefits, most likely.

I really hope she's happy no poo. She just wasn't right for me but i have issues myself.

And no its not THOSE issues people!

[Hawk]

this is very very true. if you can't relax....its not gonna happen. with boy or without boy....its the damn truth.

Ive told this to a lot of girls. You build it up b.c you think its a big deal that you can't get off so your mind is swimming and you cant just relax and concentrate. If you just relax and take your mind off of what he is doing down there and put it more on how awesome it feels....it will come. maybe not right away, but it will. and it will be f**kin great.

this sort of works both ways really...the mental aspect of it can be good and bad for both (or less....or more) people involved!!

[teeray]

I really hope she's happy no poo. She just wasn't right for me but i have issues myself.

And no its not THOSE issues people!

[boo7382]

And then there's ....

:party::party:

[GritsRgreat]

lol

More like trust issues and being a complete control freak.

[SmootsDaddy89]

Judging from Boo's posts I'm guessing she doesn't feel that shame or anxiety during sex.

[Hawk]

Judging from Boo's posts I'm guessing she doesn't feel that shame or anxiety during sex.

well, she's usually alone anyway!!!!

zinnggggg

[teeray]

Judging from Boo's posts I'm guessing she doesn't feel that shame or anxiety during sex.

Only after.

If she is anything like the girls i have been with they tend to get upset when I throw them some cab fare and ask them to show themselves out after it is over.

Heh, women you know what I mean?